Firstly, why does Arhwen need to comment? She's just derailing and utterly annoying!

Secondly, my one and only experience with Kate. I messaged requesting rates and services. She sends a voice note asking age and ethnicity and I reply.

Then she doesn't respond. I reply again asking if all is fine and... She Blocks me!

So from that short interaction I can gather that shes not worth her rate.

For someone to be so rude and dismissive says alot about her character and how she sees us.

I too have the WhatsApp and voicenote as proof in case she makes up a random excuse or different version.

This was about 3 weeks ago.

Looks and body fade but it's your personality that counts and how you treat people Kate.

On 2022-11-23 13:28:04 Lucky Horseman said:
Lol so funny Kate now playing the victim. She did not vindicate herself with her reply.

Esa really needs a list opposite to favourites. Like an avoid list for each member. This discussion would have me add two to the list.

Use your private notes to do that.

And no JP82 I asked for the R3000 upfront as you never paid for my time the previous booking made. What should I just start seeing everyone for free and not charge them coz you clearly state I didn't charge you nor do I need the money to pay my bills? I told you I'm taking the R3000 for the booking you never paid for and you played dumb.

Also my number changed as did my name due to family that found out irt what I was doing for a living. So no I didn't change my number multiple times. But you however did.

As a matter of fact I'm not the only wg that has stopped seeing you or blocked you, a few ladies have now confirmed they have done the same as they started feeling uncomfortable, and to be honest, you're even doing it now not coming to an end.

On 2022-11-23 13:23:28 Kate said:
Am I not on Esa now?

And what you haven't been since June 27th?

On 2022-11-23 13:26:17 kelv87 said:
On 2022-11-22 13:13:01 JP82 said: And actually I've told her that I'd be happy to let her keep it if she'll see me again.
But here we are -- She is still not responding to messages or answering any further calls and I'm out R3000.

This is the most revealing sentence in your original post. The spite is hidden in the "if".

If you truly felt strongly about how you were compromising her income, her keeping the money wouldn't bother you to the extent that you humiliatingly reveal this on her business platform, (even though it's okay to feel sulky about not getting your overnight booking, assuming genuine misunderstanding).

You can't moan about the money and then still say you don't care about it *as long as* she'll see you. It's one or the other, and I think Kate is seeing through your bullshit.

This is bizarre. How is saying "I'm willing to forgive in order to maintain our friendship, but I'm not willing to be scammed and then have you ride off into the sunset" spiteful?

On 2022-11-23 12:43:37 Kate said:
THIS IS GETTING BEYOND FRUSTRATING!!! IF YOU NEED THE R3000 THEN PM ME THE BANKING DETAILS AND LET ME GO ON WITH MY LIFE AND VISA VERSA.

In my personal opinion no scammer has ever offered to pay back the money they scammed from someone.

But I can be wrong.

Has anyone ever been refunded by a scammer?

On 2022-11-23 13:29:30 bouncyboobs said:
Leave the girl alone bud. She doesnt want you. Leave her the fuck alone. You must pay for time like all other gents are . She dont owe you fockle. The 3k is hers. Leave the forum also while , go find your nuts. Kate I would love a booking before you leave.

Simp?

On 2022-11-23 13:42:08 Teletubby said:
This is bizarre. How is saying "I'm willing to forgive in order to maintain our friendship, but I'm not willing to be scammed and then have you ride off into the sunset" spiteful?

Because if there was a real friendship, and you really felt that you were compromising her income, you'd be okay with her keeping the money in the name of the friendship, *even if* that means she won't see you again (following the demise of said friendship).

Why don't we have a small reunion.

A few punters as the jury

One judge

Then both of you sit in opposite corners stating you version of events.

We also invite an audience of esa ladies once we come to the conclusion

We all strip naked and have sex because at the end of the day this is a sex site.

On 2022-11-23 13:23:04 JP82 said:
One of the messages says: The last thing that happened was you took a deposit for an over nighter and stood me up, so I don't understand why you would be angry with me. But I'll let it go if you'll see me

Why can't you "let it go" irrespective of whether she'll see you or not? What matters more to you here? The money you feel was stolen from you - but acknowledge makes up for unpaid time (something you claim you earnestly wanted to do) - or her seeing you again, which you then subsequently state would forfeit this "debt" you're moaning about (thus nullifying this whole thread)?

What is it you want exactly?