On 2022-07-20 19:32:43 seanc said:
How do you guys do it? How do you still have a raging libido where you get excited for a booking and enjoy it all?

I'm in my early 40s and my libido is almost non existent. O miss that drive and craving

Was wondering if I should make a booking just for the intimacy and maybe things will start working but I do miss feeling horny and Naughty

Same here. So not just me then
I wouldn't push it if I were you. If you not in the mood, then don't force it.
One of the reasons I haven't punted at all this year. Just no interest at all.

At 60+ there still no problem with my libido.

Might be a "mind issue" or a "health issue". It does help having a healthy lifestyle. No harm in doing some excersizes as was suggested

Take advice from the guys here and don't stress about it. If it doesn't return naturally within a few months a health screening might shed some light.

My suggestion is to NOT worry about your libido.

Sex is not linear and the same saying about "not worrying solely on the destination and enjoy the journey should apply here."

Have fun with the intimacy and the connection of another.

Everyone is different and that's okay.

I come across as very serious on these pages, but in real life I am actually quite hilarious from time to time and that comes out when I least expect it... when I am my most natural, people love it and they keep coming back because of the lighter raw moments of honesty.

What I am saying is technically, you can get an orgasm anywhere. But it's what leads you there that is important and if it didn't happen, did you have a great time, did you get to connect with another?

Perhaps, you too enjoy more than just the end result and I am wishing you a beautiful journey ahead of intimacy.

On 2022-07-21 07:30:37 djo said:
Any advice for a diabetic ?

There is a train of thought that diabetes and hypoglycaemia both stem from pancreatic malfunction, which is a result of diet abuse or inherited disability.
That being said, a change in diet should mean a drastic reduction in carb intake and an increase in healthy fats and stay away from sugars.
Sort out your blood pressure with cayenne pepper and celery juice.
Adding chromium can assist with diabetes.
Also look at juniper berries.
Do your research, it's out there.

So many contributing factors here, diet, stress, hormones.
As mentioned before your natural testosterone production slows at around 40, go get your testosterone levels checked and speak to your GP about TRT. It really will change your life.

I had a 78 year old client, yesterday. You would not have guessed that by the strength of his boner, about an 11 on the MOH's scale. Lol

Healthy lifestyle works wonders and don't drink to much.The fitter you are the better your love life.At 57 I'm still all in

On 2022-07-20 19:32:43 seanc said:
How do you guys do it? How do you still have a raging libido where you get excited for a booking and enjoy it all?

I'm in my early 40s and my libido is almost non existent. O miss that drive and craving

Was wondering if I should make a booking just for the intimacy and maybe things will start working but I do miss feeling horny and Naughty

Also in my early 40s - noticed a change in my libido a few months ago - low testosterone

Change of diet and added a few supplements - its back and raging

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