My biggest disappointment about the purple world, is that you find a lady, you click and the experience is just toe curling and out of this world!

Then when you look again the lady has just dissappeared... Poof, without a trace... Now you have to go through the whole ordeal to find that special someone that just ticks all the boxes in your punter world.

I know the feeling all too well. Just as you've found the perfect WG she disappears without a trace. Like the one that got away...

Still searching for that spark I once had but it's incredibly difficult to recreate.

If you establish a good relationship, you can actually ask her for her personal number and still be able to meet when her ad is off for some reason.

Of course this all depends on several factors, the unique situation and involves a level of trust. And if she hasn't left to get married and start a family!

I think sometime we ladies feel exactly the same...;)

You got lucky and had that one regular guy that was the perfect lover or the guy that just went the extra mile to make you feel special even though you a paid service provider. That one guy that saw you for you or became a friend.

And one day he disappears just to never be seen or hear from again.

As a SP you dont call to ask where have you dissapeared too, because you never know who might pick up that phone.

Once i logged onto my facebook and found a funeral notice of a punter that had not visited in awhile.. as an SP you can you even then show your respects in anyway..you are that little secret that should never be revealed even after death.

So i totally get the feeling when guys suddenly cant find that one lady that they had a connection with that made them feel alive.

There is one in Pretoria, a massage girl, that just disappeared after being on for not even 3 weeks at one of the venues.... I thought myself i should get the number but I thought after one visit, might sound rude. Went out of the country for a couple of weeks, came back and wanted to make a booking and get that damn number and voila, she's gone. I can only eat my balls now.

On 2022-07-11 17:23:44 Miss Red ( Aka Louise ) said:
I think sometime we ladies feel exactly the same...;)

Once i logged onto my facebook and found a funeral notice of a punter that had not visited in awhile.. as an SP you can you even then show your respects in anyway..you are that little secret that should never be revealed even after death.

So i totally get the feeling when guys suddenly cant find that one lady that they had a connection with that made them feel alive.

Miss Red,
That's sometimes the biggest thing, as you do not know what happened to them, have they found a better job, are they married now or even worse dead...

I will be so happy for them if they left the industry for greener pastures, but we sometimes just don't know...

And to make matters even worse, we can't even ask here on the forum if anyone knows what happened to them, but I understand for good reason...

And there is no better feeling, when you have just about given-up on the lady that went missing, when she makes are-apperance.

Honey Boobs, welcome back my dear, think there must be quite a few massage lovers that were very happy to see your profile as actuve again.

I know this feeling. It's terrible. But best to try move on. An ex wg gave me her number once she left the industry only to try use me for cash. Becareful of being used as well.

This post reminded me of this thread I started.

client.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php

So many gone, but never forgotten. Still feel very blessed for the memories created and moments shared.

Love

Arz