Contacted a shemale on esa with good reviews .called and asked if she sees female clients .put the phone down on me .furthemore sent me a whatsapp then blocked me .like wtf

Oh damn. Didn't know we had female punters on the platform!

On 2022-04-30 18:06:35 Nadia.m said:
Contacted a shemale on esa with good reviews .called and asked if she sees female clients .put the phone down on me .furthemore sent me a whatsapp then blocked me .like wtf

So......what now??

So perhaps the she male could have politely said no. But I'm guessing the she male may not have expected your call.
Anyway..you did get your answer Nadia

So, here's a little bit of context so that maybe you can channel a little bit of your ire in the healthier direction of a little bit of empathy.

I don't know your gender but try and put yourself in the mind of your fairly-typical-mildly-homophobic-but-trying-not-to-be middle class Afrikaans guy. Got the picture? Ok now ... imagine you are that guy and a stranger calls you up and says "do you fuck guys". That man is likely to get angry, call you names, and hang up on you too. Because in his world view, the question itself is offensive and affront to his masculinity.

Now lets move to the shemale (especially if she's Thai). You calling her up and asking if she does females is the exact same question. These ladies do NOT consider themselves men, are exclusively interested in men sexually, and the question itself calls their own perceived femininity into question and is offensive to her.

If you had ever spent more than 5 minutes actually talking to a trans person you would know what a big deal this is to them.

So no, your "wtf" above is self-indulgent, a little bit transphobic, and a lot-of-bit ignorant. Just so you can see the other side of the coin.

What Orajim said but also there are just some that don't entertain females for reasons that range from them just not being interested to entertain females all the way to not wanting to be fetishised by a woman.

Just move on to the next one and try again but your chances of finding one are quite slim.

@lalaa

She could have politely declined to see me .that was very rude of her

On 2022-04-30 18:55:00 oraljim said:
So, here's a little bit of context so that maybe you can channel a little bit of your ire in the healthier direction of a little bit of empathy.

I don't know your gender but try and put yourself in the mind of your fairly-typical-mildly-homophobic-but-trying-not-to-be middle class Afrikaans guy. Got the picture? Ok now ... imagine you are that guy and a stranger calls you up and says "do you fuck guys". That man is likely to get angry, call you names, and hang up on you too. Because in his world view, the question itself is offensive and affront to his masculinity.

Now lets move to the shemale (especially if she's Thai). You calling her up and asking if she does females is the exact same question. These ladies do NOT consider themselves men, are exclusively interested in men sexually, and the question itself calls their own perceived femininity into question and is offensive to her.

If you had ever spent more than 5 minutes actually talking to a trans person you would know what a big deal this is to them.

So no, your "wtf" above is self-indulgent, a little bit transphobic, and a lot-of-bit ignorant. Just so you can see the other side of the coin.

Will try approaching differently in future.lets hope it does work out

On 2022-04-30 23:46:09 Nadia.m said:
@lalaa

She could have politely declined to see me .that was very rude of her

Sorry to hear about your experience @Nadia.m

If you are ever interested in a transman, female to male, pre op, please do let me know.

Not quite the same as a shemale. But kinda best of both worlds as well.

Sorry to hear about your experience @Nadia.m

If you are ever interested in a transman, female to male, pre op, please do let me know.

Not quite the same as a shemale. But kinda best of both worlds as well. [/QUOTE]

Please pm me more info