On 2022-04-22 22:22:09 carlfine said:
In my mind, she isn't a dude.
Maybe she never was a dude, she was just born with appendages that she doesn't identify with, and needed surgery to correct.

If u have man boobs, does that make you a woman?

Also, I'm not sure it's fair to expect her to have to reveal that part of her past. We don't know what sort of trauma got her to where she is today

Just my thoughts. No offense intended

Did you book her? Did you kiss her?

Something that bothers me as well and honestly I think it's society that dictates this, especially male culture.

Saw a comedian do a sketch on this and his words were "well I don't care what they were before, they look, act, sound, and have all the estrogen of a women now".

People change.... "she" is a women now, she was a dude 10 years ago, you aren't trying to fuck her 10 years ago.

For the record I'm still not comfortable with the idea at all either and I'd honestly love it if everyone was transparent about it, but I suspect it's just societal hang ups

*shrugs*

On 2022-04-23 07:36:32 doctorevil said:

Did you book her? Did you kiss her?

Yes, yes, and probably much more.
Assuming she was a post op but to be honest it wasn't any of my business to ask

On 2022-04-23 09:32:35 carlfine said:
On 2022-04-23 07:36:32 doctorevil said:
Did you book her? Did you kiss her?

Yes, yes, and probably much more.
Assuming she was a post op but to be honest it wasn't any of my business to ask

Love your feedback @carlfine

I usually don't get involved in these sort of posts. I feel that when you entertain this, it brings this sort of attention.

But I did once read a passage that said, "A boy who can't stand up for himself, grows up to be a man who can't stand up for anything."

When I read of this things, I often wonder, what code am I?

As a transman, I have always been a man, in the wrong body. A body I don't identify with. So even if you happened to meet me at 14, when I had long hair, wore dresses, did modeling and had estrogen oozing out of me... I was still a man. Even if I didn't have the courage to tell the world at the time.

I can only speak on behalf of myself and no one else. But I agree, transparency is important, not everyone is open minded and the lack thereof could lead to violence. Which is in NO way justified. But also consider that these women, are petrified and may have had men know their stories which could have also led to abuse and violence.

There are so many different factors to it. I personally live my life as loudly, authentically and bravely as possible.

The same way we may never know what someone else is going through, you might never know the weight a trans person may being going through. Especially the women, they get murdered, raped, beaten, called names such as code 3 or whatever.

All I'm saying is have a little bit of compassion.

I am sorry that you went into a booking unaware. Perhaps you should have directly and politely addressed it with the lady.

I agree that. It's really all about honest advertising, so that clients can choose and know what they are paying for

On 2022-04-22 22:22:09 carlfine said:
In my mind, she isn't a dude.
Maybe she never was a dude, she was just born with appendages that she doesn't identify with, and needed surgery to correct.

If u have man boobs, does that make you a woman?

Also, I'm not sure it's fair to expect her to have to reveal that part of her past. We don't know what sort of trauma got her to where she is today

Just my thoughts. No offense intended

Woke AF

On 2022-04-23 10:13:03 Raphael_ Xclusive said:
On 2022-04-23

Love your feedback @carlfine

I usually don't get involved in these sort of posts. I feel that when you entertain this, it brings this sort of attention.

But I did once read a passage that said, "A boy who can't stand up for himself, grows up to be a man who can't stand up for anything."

When I read of this things, I often wonder, what code am I?

As a transman, I have always been a man, in the wrong body. A body I don't identify with. So even if you happened to meet me at 14, when I had long hair, wore dresses, did modeling and had estrogen oozing out of me... I was still a man. Even if I didn't have the courage to tell the world at the time.

I can only speak on behalf of myself and no one else. But I agree, transparency is important, not everyone is open minded and the lack thereof could lead to violence. Which is in NO way justified. But also consider that these women, are petrified and may have had men know their stories which could have also led to abuse and violence.

There are so many different factors to it. I personally live my life as loudly, authentically and bravely as possible.

The same way we may never know what someone else is going through, you might never know the weight a trans person may being going through. Especially the women, they get murdered, raped, beaten, called names such as code 3 or whatever.

All I'm saying is have a little bit of compassion.

I am sorry that you went into a booking unaware. Perhaps you should have directly and politely addressed it with the lady.

Dear Raphael_ Xclusive

I have always taken note of all your posts. I read them because they have substance and they define the person that u are.

But.

THIS reply of yours out does every other u have ever written.

Words fail me.

You are unique, inspirational and worth all the stars in the Universe.

Thank u for your sincerity, the relevance in your reply and acknowledging the concerns of ALL parties . Not that I did not know much of what u have written BUT I am learning from u even more and hope u shall keep educating ALL of us further.

THANK YOU.

RB.

It used to bother me but not anymore. I think I've been with 3 code 3s (lol). First time, I just couldn't fuck her - not for lack of trying, but my dick just couldn't fit in. Other two were very enjoyable lays, although the first one even had dinner with me. Incredibly sweet lady.

They were all very very beautiful, only one gave me some shitty attitude but she had her sweet moments. Only thing I don't like is the man hands, have to be honest there. Also the residual testes isn't a pleasant site, it's better when they hide their private areas like they normally do.

On 2022-04-23 10:13:03 Raphael_ Xclusive said:
On 2022-04-23 09:32:35 carlfine said: On 2022-04-23 07:36:32 doctorevil said:
Did you book her? Did you kiss her?

Yes, yes, and probably much more.
Assuming she was a post op but to be honest it wasn't any of my business to ask

Love your feedback @carlfine

I usually don't get involved in these sort of posts. I feel that when you entertain this, it brings this sort of attention.

But I did once read a passage that said, "A boy who can't stand up for himself, grows up to be a man who can't stand up for anything."

When I read of this things, I often wonder, what code am I?

As a transman, I have always been a man, in the wrong body. A body I don't identify with. So even if you happened to meet me at 14, when I had long hair, wore dresses, did modeling and had estrogen oozing out of me... I was still a man. Even if I didn't have the courage to tell the world at the time.

I can only speak on behalf of myself and no one else. But I agree, transparency is important, not everyone is open minded and the lack thereof could lead to violence. Which is in NO way justified. But also consider that these women, are petrified and may have had men know their stories which could have also led to abuse and violence.

There are so many different factors to it. I personally live my life as loudly, authentically and bravely as possible.

The same way we may never know what someone else is going through, you might never know the weight a trans person may being going through. Especially the women, they get murdered, raped, beaten, called names such as code 3 or whatever.

All I'm saying is have a little bit of compassion.

I am sorry that you went into a booking unaware. Perhaps you should have directly and politely addressed it with the lady.

Great post @Raphael.
It shows your congruence, comfort and confidence with who you are.

A number of the "men" that post hate on this forum could take a leaf from your book.

On 2022-04-23 16:49:32 Russian Bridgitte said:
On 2022-04-23 10:13:03 Raphael_ Xclusive said: On 2022-04-23

Dear Raphael_ Xclusive

I have always taken note of all your posts. I read them because they have substance and they define the person that u are.

But.

THIS reply of yours out does every other u have ever written.

Words fail me.

You are unique, inspirational and worth all the stars in the Universe.

Thank u for your sincerity, the relevance in your reply and acknowledging the concerns of ALL parties . Not that I did not know much of what u have written BUT I am learning from u even more and hope u shall keep educating ALL of us further.

THANK YOU.

RB.

@RB thank you so much I really appreciate you taking time to read my posts and see them for what they are. I often put a lot of effort into what I write and don't post merely for the sake of it. So this response means the absolute world to me <3