This might fall on deaf ears for some. For others, it will be an eye opener.

Even though this is not about here, it still hits home very hard for me.


https://youtu.be/u7bSW99yMIY


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This is the most touching and deep video I have seen . Lots of respect to the creators , there are bigger problems out there that women go through but not many know about. Thanks for sharing Anthony.

#RespectTheHussle

All the more reason to respect and look after our lovely ladies of esa. Life would be far more dull stressful without you beautiful ladies pampering us and making us feel like Kings.

As a punter we only usually see one side of the coin.

I know this will fall on deaf ears for the druggies and scammers. They might not even learn anything from it. For those who do. It's interesting to see what can go wrong behind the scenes.

For one, this has taught me to respect and appreciate the good ladies in this industry on ESA.

Some go out of their way to make the client feel like a king. Yet you will get punters that will scam and take those ladies for a ride.

The inverse is also very true as well.

This sends chills down my spine. It's so sad what ladies go through. I'm thankful I've had such amazing gentlemen visiting me because when you hear other ladies stories hear. You will be shocked and in some instances it will be done by regulars. Thanks for sharing

Dearest AE...may i take this post from another angle which for me, is even more frightening...

There has been and is a vileness brewing in the whole of society as a whole...and very obvious in SA.

When criminality is revered by cops and corrupt politicians with their silence and 'angazi' attitude, turn a blind eye to rape, gender based violence, murder and more...

When education is nothing more than a farce...

A non-existent socio-economic infra-structure resulting in an ever growing pandemic of poverty steering and veering people toward choices most dehumanising

when kingpin criminals lock onto another persons desperation without any accountability or fear of being caught

when porous borders and border patrol condone illegal movement

when drugs be a way out of a bad situation ( and here we can be all full of judgement) and there be no incentive or hope that there be a better way to go

then the sugar daddy it is

the scammers follow suit

druglords thrive

gender based violence simply becomes a way of life

and only a small pocket of Samaritans try their very best to make a difference.


...sadly,many a time, that debasing of women in general is pretty obvious on this forum too...that belief that the SP's are stupid, simply fucks and worthy of nothing more...and are unable to make anything of their life.

The derogatory and presumptious brush ALL SP's are painted with by punters...it is sad .

The problem in this country is a societal one condoning the rape of all citizens rights to a better and equal life by the politicians in power, voting them year in and year out as the ruling party ....and that cultural belief that woman is a second grade citizen still prevalent among many men.

I say...it is time to start addressing the real issues at hand, the political, economic and social ones that have thrived under our very noses, our tacit silence condoning the evil we all know about BUT, pretend not to know... is the first step to healing and saving a society as whole which shall bring the necessary attention, support and action to pinpoint the bad and help the desperate.

Until that time, in this country, it is not only the SP's that suffer at the hands of evil intent of predators but, ALL woman look over their shoulders morning, day and night in fear of that lurking rapist, killer and and and...RB.

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Exactly Miss RB. Your post is beautiful. I could not have put that in better words.

That is why I love this platform. To be able to interact with everyone. Many times you get to see people's true colors.

Together we should be helping each other. Uplifting each other and helping each other grow.

Women are not objects. Yes they may dress and look sexy, but... They are still human. At least have the decency to treat them with the respect that they deserve.

Just like any other job, society may frown upon it. The good decent ladies of ESA offer great therapy as their service. I see it as such. There is nothing wrong with that.

When your teeth is sore you go see a dentist. When you need to feel good and get released, the ladies offer their skills to help you find that release.

They are not there to do with as you please. When you go visit a physician, you don't have your way with them. Likewise when you visit a lady, respect that when she says no to something. She means it. If she says no to anal or OWO, it means no.

Watching this really made me realize once again how fortunate I am. Can you imagine how their lives must be? Waking up in the morning with fear..... walking every second of the day with fear and then closing your eyes at night with fear.... never feeling safe or appreciated. And the saddest part is that some get broken down so badly that even negative attention is good enough for them because at least they are getting attention... not even knowing the difference anymore :(

Yes, we get clients that believe because they pay for our services, that they own us for that 30min.... 60min..... and they try to make a lady feel cheap and worthless. They really get off on that. Well to me that is not a man... that is a prime example of a wannabe man. But mostly we have clients that know how to treat a lady with respect, that wants to make her feel good and that leaves her looking forward to his next visit to her. To me, these are the men and the moments that makes me love my job and make me really look forward to waking up in the morning :) xxx

Thank you for posting this xx