Just a thought, if this were to happen what would you do?

I would book a few of ESA's finest and secretly invite them over for a massive orgy when he next visits... Can you imagine the reaction on both their faces when the ladies start doing their duties and the two of them are watching you?

No need for fights or arguments. The wife can join in if she wants. What would the other guy think? If he wants in he will have to pay the bill.

Lol what an interesting thought experiment.

It would turn me on immensely to catch the wife with another guy / s

I would be happy she found her sex drive again, maybe if she's pomping other okes she might start pomping me again. Wives are expensive company once they stop pomping. You pay for their upkeep plus pay elsewhere for a pomp. Where's the logic?

On 2021-05-15 10:33:19 MrJ786 said:
It would turn me on immensely to catch the wife with another guy / s

As would I. I have already teased her about having a FWB or and NSA. Looking how I could get her into having 3some or swap. Wish me luck lol.

On 2021-05-15 11:52:22 MoeE said:
On 2021-05-15 10:33:19 MrJ786 said: It would turn me on immensely to catch the wife with another guy / s
As would I. I have already teased her about having a FWB or and NSA. Looking how I could get her into having 3some or swap. Wish me luck lol.

There are some really cool parties where this can be arranged

On 2021-05-15 10:33:19 MrJ786 said:
It would turn me on immensely to catch the wife with another guy / s

Say whaaaaaaat

Happened to me twice. First time was with a girlfriend when I was still at University, I walked in on her fucking some dude in the owner's caravan outside a nightclub that used to exist in Pretoria. It affected me emotionally for many years. Personally, I think she planned it since she wanted to find a way to break up with me (I was still a needy teen at that time.) Anyway, I broke up with her and never looked back.

Second time was several years ago when I walked in on me wife and another dude in each other's arms (they were fully dressed and weren't doing it at least). I was very upset at the time, but since we hardly had a sex life, I had sex with a couple of girls that I knew, and started punting for the first time without any guilt. I think it actually saved my marriage, because now I'm still very happily married to the same person (although with very little sex in the marriage), but I have a great sex life with one or two girls that I know (that I sadly don't see often because they live far away) and a couple of SPs here on ESA.

But now, years later, I think if I caught my wife with another guy again, I wouldn't give a fuck, because my sex life outside my marriage is much better than it's ever been inside my marriage.

That being said, I love my wife dearly and I'm very happily married. I just compartmentalise the intimacy and sex as a separate part of me that exists outside of my marriage.