On 2021-05-12 10:47:33 Kooni said:
On 2021-05-12 10:38:09 Cassanata said: On 2021-05-11 22:03:00 Stguy007 said: Eish it's sad that in this day and time guys are so jaxed, if the add says massage then why book expecting more....
Because a lot of fh ladies market themselves as mg.
Thats true, but very few if any of those will explicitly say " No FH or oral" on their profile description.
On 2021-05-12 10:59:47 Shakira said:
So basically wot some of you morons are saying is bcz SA is full of criminal activity and murderers we shouldn't be too upset bcz it just how it is. Like i say let i happen to one of your daughters then come back to me then we can talk; otherwise keep quiet rather. Some of you guys are probably guilty of doing this deed thats why defending yourselves.
I have stated there are much more beautiful ladies that openly advertise and do it so rather go there.
From my side it freaks me out, knowing you not my bf and probably have eaten someone else's ass and pussy now you want mine or to kiss me with that. Its not for me; viruses and diseases are a real thing. there's plenty girls that love wot they do nd that would enjoy you. Don't waste your time with me bcz i really not going to change my mind about my boundaries. So please respect me nd my boundaries. Dont be rude and forceful please
On 2021-05-12 12:00:16 Shakira said:
Shame im very sure you failed your English comprehension tests, bcz nowhere did it say or imply anyone has a sickness. All i said its a real thing out there. Which is the truth, it is a real thing. Goodbye have a nice day and stop being a poes
On 2021-05-11 23:19:19 Lesley said:
Shakira, I understand your frustration.
I must be honest and I am sorry to be the bearer of bad news, they will never stop asking, ever.
No matter what your ad states or whether you're listed under massage or girls, they will always take their chances. Not all of them, but many.
17 years I have been in this industry and this is unfortunately one of the cons that you need to work around.
(This is not only for fh, but any boundary)
When you have a person who asks once, tell him no and don't take offense.
When this person pushes the boundaries, you immediately ask him to leave, no second chances ever. Don't take any disrespect.
I have a block list longer than I can actually care to count, boundary pushers, chancers, foul mouthed, arrogant or rude, can't take no for an answer etc.
I have this list not because I think I can walk on water, but to protect my mental health, keep my self respect and to have a safe work environment.
You have to learn to say no with conviction.
There is no nice way to say no, you are not dealing with children.
I cannot emphasize enough to state your boundaries clear on the phone, when the person oversteps refer to the information given and stop the session when the person doesn't listen.
Over time, if you intend to do this for a while, you will be less offended and more self assured that when you say no, you don't need to convince anyone, you mean it.
On 2021-05-12 14:44:32 Gwede1980 said:
I wonder if this is the attitude I will get from ladies when visiting Cape Town and decide to punt there, and I wonder if @shakira's service is as good as she claims I've picked up a lot of red flags from her responses and comments, unfortunately I'm not a massage guy and wouldn't pay someone for a wank either I can do that to myself for free LOL, @shakira I believe you have made your point there's no need for you to continue emphasizing, good for you that you think you are hot guys pay you to massage and wank them and you are making a killing, don't brag too much baby girl trust me it doesn't end well, cheers