I agree, it is probably an unusual situation. I was very fortunate to have a wife like that. Luckily we guys at least know the girls have our backs.

On 2021-05-04 16:07:21 PurpleCabbageMon said:
I agree, it is probably an unusual situation. I was very fortunate to have a wife like that. Luckily we guys at least know the girls have our backs.

I think you the envy of many a man... Many would love an open relationship like that.. but I think it would definitely be easier to get the meal you want if you order your own takeout;)

On 2021-05-04 16:04:27 Miss Red (aka Louise) said:
On 2021-05-04 15:57:40 PurpleCabbageMon said: I had the reverse problem, years ago my wife used this place to book someone for me for a fun night. Most ladies were very defensive and one even denied she offer such services. Only later did we found out it was because they were weary that another lady phoned the,they suspected she was trying to catch me out.


Natural reaction... How many women out their order up a side piece for the hubby? Not that many I can promise you that!

We would rather deny and potentially stop someone from getting into shit than admit and get them into shit!

Kudos to the ladies that covered for the married thay lost their mojo at home but at least not their house and kids.

On 2021-05-04 17:30:38 Miss Red (aka Louise) said:
On 2021-05-04 16:07:21 PurpleCabbageMon said: I agree, it is probably an unusual situation. I was very fortunate to have a wife like that. Luckily we guys at least know the girls have our backs.


I think you the envy of many a man... Many would love an open relationship like that.. but I think it would definitely be easier to get the meal you want if you order your own takeout;)

I'm jealous.

So I get this reply about a hour ago.. on my question about how come you have the link?


Would you like to join me and my husband in a 3some?

So yes it is a women :)

I have not replied yet. As I somehow don't see my usual (no thanks I don't like "slap tits and vis" because I am the sausage and eggs type of girl) going down well this time around....

On 2021-05-04 15:52:34 Miss Red (aka Louise) said:
Someone should educate you on punting SIM.. one secure folder and two whatsup and how to deactivate notifications for the "skelm" SIM and whatsapp..;)

I also need to be educated on this and would appreciate any advice. I have a burner SIM and it's much easier to hide than a second phone, which will get me in a lot of trouble if discovered.

But I've noticed that WhatsApp is in some cases the preferred method of communication. Especially with someone I am dying to meet.

If there is a way to have two WhatsApp accounts (one hidden with notifications turned off) on my phone, that would obviously be ideal. My Google... ahem... research points to downloading WhatsApp Business as the second option. Does anyone have any experience on this matter?

Much obliged.

Harry

Lol this reminds me of an incident a few years ago.
I was in DBN and decided to call a SP for rates from, Private Number, but she never answered so I forgot all about it.
A few hours later I get a call while I am with my wife and the lady says, "Hi, I had a missed call from you"
I swear I had completely forgot that I had called her and I answered her by saying sorry I think you have the wrong number and we ended the call.
It took a while but then I remebered Holy f@#k what if it was the SP returning my call and because I had deleted my call logs I could not say for sure, so I had to go lookup her profile again and see if it was the same number...and it was.
She never called back again and that's when I realised I needed a punting sim as, Private Number, calling is NOT always Private and this was waaay before True Caller came about.

Sometimes all the precautions in the world won't stop something going wrong... But we feel better knowing we did all we could to try and prevent it from going wrong... ;)

If karma/life/the universe/God, ect ,ect dicides your ticket is up.. it is what it is..and then you just have to do the best you can do to deal with the consequences in a responsible manner as best you can.

I'm just curious and going slightly off topic, but does the sneaking and danger of discovery make the experience better. I'm not debating morals or anything, it's just, I never had to bother, so I'm genuinely curious if it makes the whole experience more exciting.

On 2021-05-06 14:32:03 PurpleCabbageMon said:
I'm just curious and going slightly off topic, but does the sneaking and danger of discovery make the experience better. I'm not debating morals or anything, it's just, I never had to bother, so I'm genuinely curious if it makes the whole experience more exciting.

I suspect something like that. I posted how I seem to bump into a regular and his wife at several restaurants.She started greeting me like any normal person would if you bump into them all the time. The booking after I bumped into them is off the charts.
He is not the only one but he is the most regular.