On 2020-10-30 13:35:18 NinjaBoy.x said:
For the WG and venue it is money that they could make on another client where you took that booking slot...

I used to be rude when I was young and tell people off and storm off if they did not look the part but paid the cancelation fee. Then I realized these ladies also have feelings.

These days I understand that they working hard for their money and you cannot really blame them if things don't go according to your desired fantasy when they take off their clothes. So be a nice guy and a gentleman and opt for a massage and light conversation.

Don't worry about losing the cash. Move onto your next punt. Don't even be grumpy about the cancelation fee. This is a gentlemans industry and if you behave like one then the universe will treat you like one.

Wow... well said Mr.

I agree .... you have taken up her time (which you are paying for) so you should at least pay 80% ..... if not 100%. I know its a tough one but its the right thing to do

I would have to agree on the cancelation fee ... but if the lady is of good character, I'm sure it could be negotiated however be prepared to pay in full ... because the lady was budgeting on the full fee.

Also don't want to sound like an asshole but if I go to see a new lady and I do the initial drive by and I feel unsafe because of area or establishment ... I keep on driving.

From now on, (just for incase, I am going to kiss my client passionately, as he enters my apartment!!!!

Since the majority seem to think that up to full fee is fine as a cancellation fee, I will apologize to the house mentioned.

There used to be a time when cancellation payments were looked at as a bonus if done almost right away. Times have changed (and not for the better for anyone). In the future, I'll bear this in mind and make sure the services booked for are completely understood.

@Janine I'm sure you don't have to do any such thing to keep your clients happy!

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So this is the way I see it:

Drive to this road and call me - dodgy as hell area ( no Cancellation fee)

Bait and switch ( no cancellation fee)

The lady is 30 years older than her add profile ( No cancellation fee)

I can't make it for some reason, 100% cancelation fee to her

I think half the amount is fair enough for cancelation. Unfortunately no matter what we need to learn to respect these women what they go thru on a daily base must be extremely hard to deal with then we come along and make it worse. So I will Def just pay half and move on.

On 2020-10-30 16:34:10 peterb said:
So this is the way I see it:

Drive to this road and call me - dodgy as hell area ( no Cancellation fee)

Bait and switch ( no cancellation fee)

The lady is 30 years older than her add profile ( No cancellation fee)

I can't make it for some reason, 100% cancelation fee to her

In all these situations all we can do is comment on the add I suppose

On 2020-10-30 15:47:38 CT-Guy said:
I agree .... you have taken up her time (which you are paying for) so you should at least pay 80% ..... if not 100%. I know its a tough one but its the right thing to do

Unfortunately the world does not work like that.

If the punter is at fault 80% or 100% should apply

But

If the WG misrepresented herself then 0-30% max.