Well I hope it works out for you in the end.

Drinks Friday see what happens.

Keep us posted.

@ Durban guy .. I can assure you that I am not Hottie at work. I use to be in the business and left about 6 years ago already, never to be back. I just find the Forum interesting and if my advice can help someone, why not? It is also not about romancing her, it is about having a sexy time there, but to woo her would definitely help as every women loves that. Go Rickylick .. lol

Lol Ricky its like fishing..the big one's you bring in slowly. Unlucky for you she is very decent but she will get use to the idea . Explain to her the principals of NSA ,to play safe, enjoy and nobody gets hurt

I'm single, honestly it may be being naive, but if I get married and the day comes where I'm more worried about my potential cheating partners reaction than that of my wife........I'm proper screwed. Step back rickylick read everything you have posted here and understand just how much you are disrespecting your wife. My personal views is that this is messed up on way too many levels.

Thanks for the advice guys :)

Yup it's all about the chase.
As has been mentioned I could've used the money on many girls here that would give me an awesome time without much effort on my part besides forking over the cash.

This one is far far more exciting - lol I'm already betting the sex won't be fireworks as she doesn't seem all that experienced and is super conservative.

It's the fact that it may or may not happen that keeps me chasing ....

Lol she did say I have a big heart - I almost slipped out I have a big deeek as well . ( wink wink )

Go for it. Just keep to basic rules as given by lots of guys. Separate phone and use protection. The repurcusions at work is hectic, ask me. But would do it again.

Any of the Durban ladies reading this? Scattercash Ricky's going to be down your way next week. One of ya should hit him up for a loan lol.

This is like a James Hardley Chase novel, the "hero" always get the maiden. I can tell you all now how this is going to end. The Friday night of the social hogtie is going to jump rickylick's bones in the bathroom and after jumping is bones in the bathroom she is going to whisper in his ear and ask him if rickylick can get a hotel room because she wants to make love to him the whole night.

10four I respect your views.

We will talk after you've been with the same woman 24 years -

I am not a saint but am a man after all.
I will give you one small example

When my wife turned 40 we had a big do -friends family etc.
I bought her a brand new 3 series bmw - a car I am still paying off.

Due to the birthday celebrations not much time for a thank you (wink wink ) you know what I mean - I had already factored that in wasn't expecting a celebratory thank you session.

Due to headaches from getting smashed ( understandably ) the only thank you I got was 2 weeks later.
A 5 minute disinterested handjob.

Lol even my ancestral Neanderthal forefathers were rewarded
by at least a good shag when they came home after a hunt with a hindquater of wooly mammoth.

Marriage counseling was a disaster - wifey chose counsellor.
After 6 sessions he said I'm not the problem and that wifey needed extra treatment.
An outcome she refused to accept.

You say without knowing my situation that I have disrespected my wife - I say she has disrespected me -

I slave to give her everything her heart desires-
I have sacrificed to make sure my family has the best I can afford.
My kids go to the 2 best schools in Houghton.
We have been to Disney, Vegas ,Europe , the far east.
Lol even The Caribbean.
But it's not about the money.

All I ask for is some love , attention and yes the occasional screw!

@wors I really wish you were the author. :)

I doubt very very very much that's what will happen on Friday with all the staff ,managers etc around.

I have more chance winning the lottery lol