So where has Ricky Bobby disappeared to ?

Divorce court. Lol

Hi guys sorry I've taken so long to get back to you.

It would appear that wifey had sent a hello message perhaps as a tester to see the response.
Hottie fortunately didn't answer.

Hottie is however very angry- I think she felt I had not lived up to my promise of secrecy which i guess is what has happened.
That pretty much sinks the whole deal :(

She pretty cold towards me so I guess that's that - lol

@durbanguy no I was working Saturday morning. Lol not that hard a worker.

Anyway i still have to give her the balance but at the moment I think she's ignoring me.
Maybe doesn't need the extra .
Perhaps those doomsayers were right.

Anyway will keep you guys updated -

It's been a roller coaster ride lol - I know I could've taken the money and definitely gotten laid but hey the adventure of this made it sooo much more captivating.

To those who followed thanks :) I'm glad I shared it with you lol that was half the fun.

Who knows what tomorrow brings ......

Trust a women(wifey) to fcuk everything up for you Ricky.

Don't give up dude.

You should have taken the advice and went to HOE...LOL


Neither a borrower nor a lender be,
For loan oft loses both itself and friend,
And borrowing dulls the edge of husbandry.

William Shakespeare:Polonius:Hamlet Act 1, scene 3.

Hi Rickey..what let Hottie think there was no privacy and how did Hottie find out. Smooth talk her..I know it will work

Lol I would've loaned the money in any event- I'm a sucker like that :(

Just couldnt resist as temptation was too great.

Guess it was the challenge - the odds of pulling it off where huge right from the get go but I would've never forgiven myself for not trying.

Rick you have given us too much info on hottie and wife - I am sure they have spent the last week reading this post with bated breath. In this type of situation I am paranoid and so I always change the facts - e.g. instead of saying that your wife is a red head say that she is a blonde etc
Good luck - i hope that you come right

Ricky. How do you know what hottie is pissed about? You are speculating. She is a woman and women are impossible to read, you know this. For all we know she is pissed because you were not more confident and did not rip her clothes off. Damn, go for it, don't listen to the "told you so bunch", you have hardly even begun. Keep your eye on the prize. Round 1 was partly won (you have emotional credit on Hottie), for round 2 you need a better plan than just hand over cash. As long as there is one advantage that you gain from each round then you will eventually get the prize. Imagine Hottie on your cock with her perky boobs bouncing. Remember what you are going for, you have an opportunity so go for it.

Anyway after ignoring me most of yesterday - I sent her a message saying I can understand why men are gay- Friday you say we friends - sat my wife sent you a message which I've apologized - mon you say you not upset but today you angry.

Told her I will always be her friend and one day she can tell me why she's angry - and that I deserved an explanation.

She finally answered that she's given the matter some thought and didn't want anyone getting hurt.
She's determined to pay back the money - and that we should remain good friends.I was the only one she could turn to ( in my mind -what about your useless hubbie but obv kept that to myself)

I told her I understand and it wasn't a big deal - we still buddies.
She then sent me a text kiss to say thanks.

Later when everyone had gone I gave her the remaining R3000
She gave me a hug and told me I'm naughty-lol
I said I couldn't help it cos she's so hot (wink wink)

Anyway we laughed and joked - much more relaxed.
She kept telling me how naughty I am -so I kept laying on the charm eg I'm putty in the hands of a sexy woman etc - lol - cheesy I know but whats a man to do :)

Anyway ended well - think/ hope there's still more to come.
Gotta play my cards well.
Gonna be tough but let's see.

Our companies have a bi -monthly drink at the local pub which is due on Friday.
She did ask if I'm coming -so hey let's see if a drink or 2 won't break more ice.
Will update ..


Also let's see what happens at end of month when repayment is due.
I'm due to go to Durban for a meeting next week for 2 days so haven't tons of time-opportunity

I'm down but maybe , maybe not out. :)