Thank you for your advice there are some good pointers for sure. I however hate an automated reply. I prefer to reply personally. I also dont want every tom dic and Harry to have my pics or details as I haveva certain clientele that I prefer to share this with. The amount of school age kids that enquire is scary.

On 2026-08-07 07:35:55 Massage By Katya said:
Thank you for your advice there are some good pointers for sure. I however hate an automated reply. I prefer to reply personally.

We all prefer a nice personal response and even conversation and flirting but we're well aware that the ladies are busy and can not reply immediately to our queries.

It is much better to get an immediate response with the relevant information than no response or a late response. Also, if the info isn't to our satisfaction, it isn't a waste of time for the punter and SP. We can immediately see this isn't for us and move along without the SP needing to do anything. On the other hand, if it is, we can all save the time going through the basics and get to the additional details for special requests etc or skip straight to booking when you are available if everything is satisfactory.

JP69

Thank you for that feedback aslo. However the vast majority of punters in my 25 years experience are not like you....they want a personal response and a short banter it often helps both yourself and them get a feel of who they are talking to. Rememebr us SPs have no clue who you are or even look like. Plus as I said I dont want my details sent to 17 year olds in Spain. For just one example. The method of communicating is very annoying for us as well when punters do a vast list of things on the phone of which I wont derail your good thread for. But no I wont be changing to automated details and pics. My pics already even show face on the site.

I absolutely agree with you. For a normal business, having all of this information openly available on WhatsApp would make perfect sense. In this industry, however, discretion and privacy are extremely important, especially when clients may have partners or wives who can see their WhatsApp activity.

Around 90% of my clients are married, and I have had several wives contact me directly. So for me, discretion really is key. Having everything openly displayed on a WhatsApp profile, including rates, services, location and photos, can completely take away that discretion.

I do try to keep things as discreet as possible. My adverts already contain clear information, and when someone contacts me, I send my full price list with the location clearly stated at the top. Yet I still get asked daily what I offer, what my rates are, and where I am located.

Unfortunately, you simply cannot please everyone. Some clients appreciate having all the information upfront, while others don't read the information at all and ask the same questions repeatedly.

I've even had someone complain because I was too punctual, so sometimes you really can't win

At the end of the day, I think the frustration goes both ways. Clients get frustrated when they don't receive the answers they want immediately, and ladies get equally frustrated when information that is clearly provided isn't read.

So yes, I completely understand the advice and appreciate where you're coming from. But for me, discretion has to come first, even if it means answering a repetitive questions every day.

Just my two cents.

Have a beautiful weekend, purple people.

On 2026-08-06 08:55:10 Michelle Savaty said:
The problem is not that, the problem is a punter that confirms a booking with a time. We ladies get ready, wait for them. Ok so they 5 min late. Cool assume its traffic. We send a whatsapp of call. Hey sweets whats your eta. Reply im 10 min out or on my way. Almost there. Cool. 10 min go by. Call again. Or whatsapp yes im just at the bank quickly drawing the money. You wait another say 5 min or 10 min incase there was a que. Call again the guy doesnt answer the phone or blocked you.

So whos time are we saving here?

In the meantime 2 or 3 other posible punters phone and we tell them we will only be available in the next say 90 min. So we loose on other bookings. Especially when the fucking idiot books and confirms an all night booking.

So my question is WTF do guys do this? Do you take bets on waisting our time to see who gets to waist it the longest or how exactly do the idiots that does that find any pleasure out of it

Agreed I've heard this from many a lady and then the other one is the lady has a location indicated and some entitled knob messages to say "hey xxx I'm here are you available now"