Seeing a number of threads about falling for wgs has got one thinking.... where do people look for love nowadays?

People who have jobs or are entrepreneurs have to be more involved with work commitments in order to stay ahead.

And if you're over 25 and still clubbing, then that's something else.

Well if i must say is the society we live in is ever so changing and people are too but not fast enough i mean back in the 19's people had children was happy married and stuff . Now people are too fussy with social media its hard because some people life diffrent personally and are diffrent than real life exaple. I am a bodybuilder thats looks really good and everytime i meet a WG they are shocked to say wow you are good looking why are you here ??and always people ask me why are you not with a girl and enjoying life differently blah blah blah ...

Well most people i know around 25 and up if they have a child it was a "oepsie"(mistake) and most are still young well think they are waiting for that perfect one and believe me there is no one that is perfect you must comprise its the only way ..

Yes im with a girl for a while do i think she is the most perfect and best person for me that is flawless and just happily ever after. No way because we look for beter but we are blind through the society of sosial media,actors and people we see who we think yes they have it all..

Well where to look for love ..

Simple.

Guys just be yourself and compliment a lady if she likes you and get that feeling make it work and don't fuck it up...

Or youll be the guy sitting in the bar in his 50's that has nothing no love ....

Ok thanks for taking your valuable time reading this...

On 2019-05-25 16:03:31 S247 said:
Well if i must say is the society we live in is ever so changing and people are too but not fast enough i mean back in the 19's people had children was happy married and stuff . Now people are too fussy with social media its hard because some people life diffrent personally and are diffrent than real life exaple. I am a bodybuilder thats looks really good and everytime i meet a WG they are shocked to say wow you are good looking why are you here ??and always people ask me why are you not with a girl and enjoying life differently blah blah blah ...

Well most people i know around 25 and up if they have a child it was a "oepsie"(mistake) and most are still young well think they are waiting for that perfect one and believe me there is no one that is perfect you must comprise its the only way ..

Yes im with a girl for a while do i think she is the most perfect and best person for me that is flawless and just happily ever after. No way because we look for beter but we are blind through the society of sosial media,actors and people we see who we think yes they have it all..

Well where to look for love ..

Simple.

Guys just be yourself and compliment a lady if she likes you and get that feeling make it work and don't fuck it up...

Or youll be the guy sitting in the bar in his 50's that has nothing no love ....

Ok thanks for taking your valuable time reading this...

Great comment, however it depends what you want out of life and how happy you are in your own skin

On 2019-05-25 16:03:31 S247 said:


Well where to look for love ..

Simple.

Guys just be yourself and compliment a lady if she likes you and get that feeling make it work and don't fuck it up...

Social media has created false expectations. But where do you find the lady? You can't exactly approach in a mall or public setting without coming across as a weirdo or am I wrong?

It's good that you're taking care of your body and perhaps you get to socialise at the gym. It takes a lot of discipline and hard work.

I have no clue! I've forgotten how to seperate work and what I know about men in this industry from the real world! It's not easy meeting people outside of the industry! Maybe it's different for clients!

On 2019-05-25 16:33:41 Veronica Franco said:
I have no clue! I've forgotten how to seperate work and what I know about men in this industry from the real world! It's not easy meeting people outside of the industry! Maybe it's different for clients!

Not different for the clients.
In fact this industry makes it harder for the clients to meet ladies any other way because it takes courtship out of the equation. Then again there is not all that much of that involved when using Tinder. Still, it makes one lazy.

On 2019-05-25 16:28:14 punter001 said:
On 2019-05-25 16:03:31 S247 said:

Well where to look for love ..

Simple.

Guys just be yourself and compliment a lady if she likes you and get that feeling make it work and don't fuck it up...

Social media has created false expectations. But where do you find the lady? You can't exactly approach in a mall or public setting without coming across as a weirdo or am I wrong?

It's good that you're taking care of your body and perhaps you get to socialise at the gym. It takes a lot of discipline and hard work.

Ahh yes well where to meet a girl best would be is luck.. like if your at the mall and standing in a que mabye meet someone or if you somewhere and someone keeps looking at you mabye talk but thats it .. walking in a mall like approaching a lady is lust because you look at her (just me) i am in my 20's i have met people that are 50's that i would say wow if you were only the same age as me ..

Back to the gym nah i don't much social im there for results if they wana talk and stuff they can after training..

I hate social media makes people different.

U looking for real love or you just asking ..

It's not about lazy for me...when one is honest about this industry and being in it people normally treat me differently. I have just given up on dating and just enjoy the interaction with clients with no expectations! Guys treat me like I'm a risk or as a booty call. I understand why so I've given up trying!

On 2019-05-25 16:43:56 Veronica Franco said:
It's not about lazy for me...when one is honest about this industry and being in it people normally treat me differently. I have just given up on dating and just enjoy the interaction with clients with no expectations! Guys treat me like I'm a risk or as a booty call. I understand why so I've given up trying!

Dating a working lady is tricky. Not a problem for a casual relationship but what about if things become more serious. As much some people think it will be different, jealousy is real. So either they are not invested enough or 'too much', Still, there are some happily ever after stories.

In my view, it mostly has to do with one's social circle and your hobbies.

Edit: Online dating is a big fail because most men on there are just looking for an easy lay, but there are sites that cater for people who are into running, cycling and hiking and every now and then they have social events where they get together for a game night or something similar. Always new faces from both genders.