Just read a review by @Scouter8, he says:

"We spoke a great deal even about her boyfriend who kept calling a million times who she met on the purple world - and how he spends more than a punter - which doesn't make sense to me..."

Lol I have actually dated a WG and yes you pay more than a punter and you're even getting less sex. It happened in 2024, her profile has since been removed from the purple world. For context, her rates were R500 for an hour and her all nighter was R1500. I opted for an all nighter. I booked a hotel and drove all the way to Joburg. She asked for Uber money to come to my hotel, I sent and she gave me the run around until she blocked my number.

I was a gold member at the time so I wrote about what happened on her profile to warn others. In the morning I sent her a message via the ESA. She responded and apologised, taking about she was stressed or something. Long story short she unblocks me, we meet, we have sex.

I pay her in the morning. Then the swindling begins. First she tells me she is short with R600 to pay off the rent. I give her the R600. Then she tells me she has money that she can't access be coz she lost her ID and needs some money to get a temporary ID and some groceries. So she borrows money...I send R1500, lol this is day 1.

Day 2) she sees the comment I left on her profile and other punters are now commenting. A punter who had previously reviewed her positively then reveals how she stole items from the hotel he had booked for them. She calls me, swears at me and blames me for not getting new clients. I panic and stupidly ask her what does she needs, she says R3500, I send. Lol I even called ESA directly to ask them if the can remove the comment (they said no)...

Day 3) She says she wants to do her hair and quotes me R500, I send. Then she says her Uber driver stole her card and swiped alcohol with it. I ignore coz I could tell she wants to ask for more. So she changes strategy and asks money to buy food, I ask "didn't you buy from the money you borrowed on the first day", she says she craving snacks. I send R200. She then asks me to buy her a voucher to gamble, I refuse.

Day 4) she becomes very persistent about the gambling voucher. I tell her I'll buy it for her. I spend R200 on the voucher and send it to her. She then accuses me of sending a voucher that doesn't work. She throws a tantrum, and tells me to block her and never talk to her coz I don't care about her. At this point I'm fed up, I've sent R6500 in a period of 4 days to someone I just met. And all I get is tantrums and lies. She even told me to block all my regulars and I must only have sex with her. Meanwhile she getting booked and fucked by anybody, hahaha.

So I choose my own sanity and ignore her. She then starts calling relentlessly and even sends me messages swearing at me. I ignore them all.

Day 5) At 2 am she sends me a disturbing message where she alludes to taking her own life and even sends me a picture where she cut herself. I panic and start calling her. She's not answering, I even almost called her house mate who was also advertising here. Eventually she sends a message saying she can't answer coz people are sleeping. At this point I'm like why am I entertaining this person, she's clearly crazy. Eventually we talk and we on good terms again.

Day 6) she says she hungry and needs some food. I don't wanna send her anymore money but I feel bad so I say I can only send R500. And I send it.

Day 7) I go to Joburg to go book my long term regular. I just wanted her to fuck the stress out of me, lol. After fucking my regular I go see this girl (now I didnt want to sleep with her anymore coz I didn't trust her). She gets into my car and tells me she missed her period (rookie mistake on my side, I did go raw). Now I panic again, this can't be my baby mama... I ask if she tested for pregnancy and she says No. I think back to that night and I'm like, no I never came.

The moment I said that, she changes her story and says she feels her period coming now. I realised that she was trying to fake a pregnancy so she can get more money out of me. She then asks for money to buy Pads since her pregnancy story didn't work on me. I send R300.

Day 8) She tells me she lost her bus ticket and is asking for money to buy a new one. I'm realising that everyday this person has a problem that needs my money. So far I've sent R7300 to her account and I've only known her for a week and I e only slept with her once. On top of that I've had to deal with her bullshit, her tantrums and her lies. I decided to block her. To this day she is still trying to call me with different numbers and I keep blocking her.

In conclusion, yep you pay more when you date a WG but that's my experience. Maybe some have a more positive experience than I had.

100 true, I know of quite a few who get monthly retainer fees of more than 30k from multiple guys simultaneously to be exclusive and not 'work', they are super possesive and clingy.
The tantrums and random stories are standard.
Yet, they still work freely but god forbid their main guy just look in a different direction.
Some beautiful mutually respectful relationships have formed though

Oh Bongane, the red flags were screaming at you and you were just so stubborn lol. Reading this actually infuriates me because a wg tried doing the same thing to me but I stopped after day 1

Jerr Bongz, you needed a warm klaap from one of your mates to catch a wakeup!

Mmm got scammed into this as well mine was a cute coloured girl paid 80 k over 12 months for 14 shags

Not that she was the the best but sad i still have feelings for her

Expensive lesson learned

On 2026-01-26 10:52:43 Sir Shadow Hefner said:
Jerr Bongz, you needed a warm klaap from one of your mates to catch a wakeup!

Hahaha, I needed to klaap myself coz WTF was I doing. She came at a time in my life where I was dealing with depression and I was very gullible. Ever since that girl I'm very wide awake. Lol last year an MG tried to swindle me into a relationship and I was quickly hit with deja vu and I blocked her before the swindle can begin.

Even dealing with civilians isn't much cheaper lol.

2 weeks ago I got together with this hun for a weekend.

Dinner, drinks and just general stuff over the weekend probably set me back R4k easy.

I only slept with her 3 times over 3 days and it was bang average sex (maybe my mind is warped after entering this industry). 3/5 on service if I could rate her.

One of the times was only because she was happy I got her an expensive gift lol or else I wasn't getting coochie that day.

So all in all around R6k.

Just this week I spent 1k with one of my regulars and had a GREAT time.

Dating casually is definitely more expensive than punting.

But I guess you can't put a price on not sleeping alone at night lol

Having gotten my fingers burned in a similar situation I learned the best way to mitigate against this is never give money unless you get something back, quid pro quo. So the last time a WG thought she could play me like this I made sure to never electronically send money. She had to physically fetch it either I go see her and "drop it off" or get her an uber so she can come fetch and give me sex in return. I did this every single time so that it's ingrained in her that she asks for anything it comes with something in return and not take advantage of you.

Never give money above and beyond the negotiated. I learnt my lesson even with people not in the industry.

Always I'm "hungry" or some excuse. And normally round amounts. They cant produce a receipt or invoice then you know it's a con.

Plenty of scammers, druggies etc out there.