GUYS101
In its most simplistic form, the need to know basics for men in thee boudoir

1. If it's a first meet, don't attack her with your octopus arms and bad breath the minute the door closes. GENTLEman plan their moves and can wait a little longer. Rather follow her lead and give everyone a chance to feel each other out, relax and enjoy it as the anticipation grows.
2. Do take this window opportunity and ask her if she is keen to play out the start a certain way, as you have imagined; it's starts to spice things up a little these ideas and visualizations.
3. Don't lie about having just showered, cheesy cone is something you just don't come back from.
4. When u do shower, soap all the bits you want her to kiss, soap smells are very encouraging. And dry your legs, back and hairy bum, sticky wet isn't sexy.
5. Now what's the rush ... First times are awkward, unfamiliar and sometimes we crush under the pressure. This doesn't have to happen; treat it as for what it is ( awkward, unfamiliar ) don't be a willy and go blind cos u gone into wank bank and flop around aimlessly and ferocious. The 2nd time allows for that. You want to be gentle, assured and have her relaxed enough to enjoy it while you explore.
6. There is more than 1 way to play with nipples, to kiss & lickylick. If u have any desire to be a good lover and get her going to you should have these 3 techniques for every body part. If the first one doesn't seem to work, try the next one - if she closes her eyes, starts to breath deeper, says that's good or u feel her body relax; game on carry on

To be continued ...

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GUYS101
In its most simplistic form, the need to know basics for men in thee boudoir

1. If it's a first meet, don't attack her with your octopus arms and bad breath the minute the door closes. GENTLEman plan their moves and can wait a little longer. Rather follow her lead and give everyone a chance to feel each other out, relax and enjoy it as the anticipation grows.
2. Do take this window opportunity and ask her if she is keen to play out the start a certain way, as you have imagined; it's starts to spice things up a little these ideas and visualizations.
3. Don't lie about having just showered, cheesy cone is something you just don't come back from.
4. When u do shower, soap all the bits you want her to kiss, soap smells are very encouraging. And dry your legs, back and hairy bum, sticky wet isn't sexy.
5. Now what's the rush ... First times are awkward, unfamiliar and sometimes we crush under the pressure. This doesn't have to happen; treat it as for what it is ( awkward, unfamiliar ) don't be a willy and go blind cos u gone into wank bank and flop around aimlessly and ferocious. The 2nd time allows for that. You want to be gentle, assured and have her relaxed enough to enjoy it while you explore.
6. There is more than 1 way to play with nipples, to kiss & lickylick. If u have any desire to be a good lover and get her going to you should have these 3 techniques for every body part. If the first one doesn't seem to work, try the next one - if she closes her eyes, starts to breath deeper, says that's good or u feel her body relax; game on carry on

To be continued ...

7. If she shaves don't rub upwards towards her belly, it's tender and will flare up
8. You should treat ear body like a stranger: knock at the door, greet, introduce yourself. Similarly star sensually on the outskirts and work your in. It's amateurish to slip a dry finger up the middle!!
9. There should be a lil chatter the first time, exploration and whispers here and there. I always ask do u like this or that, like it there or here? U can gently guide her to the places u like and who knows maybe even find something new. It's silky to think the way u do it is perfect every time, and likewise u shouldn't get moody if she is trying to help you, rather play along. I found that in general men found a technique that worked once and they klap it over and over again ....

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For the love of it: www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php
Which one is you: www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php
CWL - Call with restrictions www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php
Article: 3 Things I learned from a working girl www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.phpt