The situation isn't exactly similar to those mentioned above.

If the girl was honest with her past then it shouldn't be a problem. If she kept that hidden it would be infinitely better if the truth came out before they are married with kids involved.

Oi Vey, no, no, no, no, no, gentlemen what are you saying here.

Are we all so honest towards our better half about our shenanigans, hit me with another one please!

Husband to wife: “Hi honey, how was your day?”

Wife to husband: “Soooo busy with the kids, love them, but they drove me crazy, how was your day my dear?”

Husband to Wife: “My day went swell, finalized some projects at work, then “popped” in by Janine for a glass of wine and some fun.”

Come now gentlemen, what’s good for the goose is good for the gander, leave it be, we all do things in life we may not be proud of, and then again we also do many things in life that we are truly proud of.
; o)

Janine well said! I'm proud of u! Guys u are to quick to judge considering u are visiting us. Many of u have wives and girlfriends. Do they know about us? Some but not many of us are able to be completely honest but many of us have to much to loose. Think before u speak. What if it was u with the secret? How would u feel if someone told on u?

Apart from judging others, if we flip the script, you arrive with your new woman, and WG is her best friend... Would you mind if she spilled the beans on your sexual activities/ punting and preference for spanking and Greek and the like? Be careful what you wish for! And you will be at pains to explain how you come to know That your buddy's main squeeze is a WG, unless you "punt" together...

@KudaVamwe & @ Janine, spot on, well said!

1. Don't say a word to your mate, one way or another it will come back to bite you in the ass and not the good kind of biting either.
2. Do not solicit a punt (in any form) from her if she is still working or retired... it might be funny to you but if your mate finds out both you and her will be out on your ears, its just not worth it.

By the very nature of the platform that this forum is on we are none of us angels... not a one. technically we are all criminals, cheaters, etc, etc... so how the hell can claim any sort of moral high ground. We also, as much we claim to know our friends, haven't a clue what they discuss or get up to in their private time so intruding on that is always at your own peril and we are almost certainly more likely to get a welsh kiss for our interfering efforts before a handshake.

Live and let live... and then plead complete and utter ignorance if it ever becomes an issue.

Well said deamonza! Totally agree!