Would you propose to a working girl - either marriage or a LT relationship? If not why not?
I will do it in a snap, but the problem is I am too old for the young girls on the site. Oh I fantasize about being younger but alas... I don't want to do that to them.
Heaven knows, the girls here are lookers compared to the profiles on the local dating sites.
To the working girls, would you consider such a proposal? (I just saw Pretty Women, but I think you guessed it. :) )

I worked with a guy who was divorced and had two kids. They were about 15 & 17 and living with the mother in another town. We often used to punt together.
He met, fell in love with and married a lovely lady who was previously a self employed escort.
When things started to get serious between them she stopped taking on other clients and eventually left the industry all together. He got her a job at a mutual friends company and she became a everyday working "soccer" mom. They had one more kid of their own.

A few years later his oldest son found out how his dad and step mom met and it became a massive issue for his first two kids. I think that it was fuelled by his ex-wife. It became so bad that he now doesn't even speak to his kids anymore. The ex even tried to turn his parents against him.

I have often thought if I would do the same as him. I have 3 kids of my own.
I often fall in "love" or is it lust? And would love to propose to a wg.
Given my mates situation I am always concerned about what might come out in the long run.

Well, I met a wonderful man who was a client from here, and now cleaning up my act for that L/T proposal. And have been given my deadline in doing so.

I'm happy for u Catherine. I really do hope it works out for u. Its an inspiration to us all.

Similar to rtoo's story, only this time the lady continued secretly selling sexual favors until the hubby found out. It was a big tragedy, since they has a 4 year old kid... IMHO once a whore - always a whore. Problem is the transition from utter independence to family life and budgeting etc.

Cat, if you can really clean your act up, then my total respects!

I have to agree with havata,my honest opinion is that a relationship or even a marriage can never work between a client and a WG.

Nie al die meisies wil die werk verewig doen nie. Soms gebeur dinge met n doel. Soms moet jy eers die harde pad loop voor die see sand verskyn. Die probleem in vandag se lewe ons is nie beryd om te laat gaan van die verlede nie. Xxxx if you love her marry her.

If any WG is serious about marriage with a punter they should immediately get out of the business and not trying to tell people that they are busy with their plans to exit the industry. And yes the same for the client, he should immediately stop punting no excuse.

Don't think such a relationship will ever work no chance of building trust from either side. Will constantly be an issue.Wanted to try this but gave up.Trust just never there.It is fine in the beginning but as time progress it becomes more and more of a issue

All this what I'm doing an which he knows will be burning in June which he will be burning including all my cells. because that is how committed I am to him.

And it's funny how you never hear on the forum of those relationships that do work out and I know of 5 from ESA.

And this BS once a whore always a whore is NOT TRUE some of the WGs are studying as I have an still doing and for some of us that are lucky to meet the right man IT'S NO MORE WG/WHORE.

But the same can be said ONCE a dog always a dog ?

havata] Similar to rtoo's story, only this time the lady continued secretly selling sexual favors until the hubby found out. It was a big tragedy, since they has a 4 year old kid... IMHO once a whore - always a whore. Problem is the transition from utter independence to family life and budgeting etc.

Big mistake to Size that issue up with WG here that pay for their own ad's, not all of us are in the same boat let alone the same reasons.

And about respect from a man, Any woman no matter her walk of life only wants the RESPECT from 2 men in her her, that of her father and 1 her partner and no other.