@Tia: sounds like you possibly have been with amateurs. When u ready to try again make sure that its with a guy who knows exactly what he is doing and somebody that u are very comfortable with and trust (so definitely no porn star wannabes!!) He has got to be extremely patient so time should not be limited. Also lube, lube and whole lot more (quality) lube is a must.

Maybe he can start with a well lubed (condom covered? ) finger then progress to a small dildo to loosen things up a bit :) and then finally the real deal. All this done very sloooooowly and with a great deal of care and patience to minimise the discomfort to you.

I'm thinking of somebody in the league of frequent forum poster Havata

LOL @Ayanda. I suppose it all depends on the personal hygiene of the particiapants.

So greek is very much a trust issue: a) trust that the lady has for a guy ( assuming homosexual intercourse ) to allow him access to such a delicate part of her body and that he won't abuse her trust.
b) trust that the guy has in the woman that he won't find himself in a bit of a shitty situation :)

Pass... I mean i like trust, but not enough to have anyone thrusting all up in my shyte...

Oop! meant assuming hetrosexual intercourse not homosexual

330guy ok i will ta.
Ayanda im also wondering tht. Kikiki

So, the girls who like anal, please come forward on this forum and say "I like cock in my arse", that would be real nice, instead of all who DON'T like anal coming out here and telling us why, lol.

Nothing is for everyone, and rule 36 (Google that).

There is usually an argument that it isn't natural but to that, neither is a blowjob as that's not what the mouth was made for. That doesn't stop us from enjoying it anyway. Same goes for cunnilingus but it adds to the overall experience of sex.

Greek is a bit more Marmite, either you hate it or you love it. It isn't a substitute for a tight, wet and warm pussy, as can be said for a bj. It isn't a natural orifice, as can be said for a bj but it can look and feel sensational as part of the overall thing or even as a solitary act, just like a bj.

It isn't for everyone but I am personally a sucker for a girl who doesn't hold back; my biggest weakness is girl who can add more avenues to the map of Pleasure and Fantasy that is a good fuck.