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In that moment when you don't know what to do..
Posted: 2020-09-24 14:47:18
Edited: 2020-09-24 14:52:18
Edited: 2020-09-24 14:52:18
Hello Purple world
Hope you are well. I don't know if this over stepping the punter and SP confidentiality. But hey..
So,I received a call from a lovely gentleman. This call was not the usual,because in most cases you listen not heard. He asked "how would you like to spend your evening?" In shock and also in a cynical response I said "You one of those?"(guys who act like they care).
Moving right along,he insist.. So, i tell him (quiet evening,lovely meal with cranberry juice and leafs;).. (Because I'm heart broken to be ambitious.)
He fulfills my wishes. Had a lovely,passionate,romantic evening. While in staring at, he cry.. Yes, crying.. I didn't know what to do. What to say.. Eventually,asked "is the anything wrong?". He replied by saying "broke up with my girlfriend ".. Also suffering from a broken heart myself, all I could offer was a hug. Which ended up with 2 people crying. Lol.. Until I watched him peacefully fell asleep. Left so he doesn't feel embarrassed when he is sober.
Question: Is it wrong,not to check up on the person after that?
Xxx
V
Hope you are well. I don't know if this over stepping the punter and SP confidentiality. But hey..
So,I received a call from a lovely gentleman. This call was not the usual,because in most cases you listen not heard. He asked "how would you like to spend your evening?" In shock and also in a cynical response I said "You one of those?"(guys who act like they care).
Moving right along,he insist.. So, i tell him (quiet evening,lovely meal with cranberry juice and leafs;).. (Because I'm heart broken to be ambitious.)
He fulfills my wishes. Had a lovely,passionate,romantic evening. While in staring at, he cry.. Yes, crying.. I didn't know what to do. What to say.. Eventually,asked "is the anything wrong?". He replied by saying "broke up with my girlfriend ".. Also suffering from a broken heart myself, all I could offer was a hug. Which ended up with 2 people crying. Lol.. Until I watched him peacefully fell asleep. Left so he doesn't feel embarrassed when he is sober.
Question: Is it wrong,not to check up on the person after that?
Xxx
V
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Re: In that moment when you don't know what to do..
Posted: 2020-09-24 16:36:24
No it's not wrong, unless you want a new friend.
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Re: In that moment when you don't know what to do..
Posted: 2020-09-24 16:58:17
He just wanted to book you for the night plus he was drunk you implied mos heyy?
He's probably sober with his girlfriend now.
He's probably sober with his girlfriend now.
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Re: In that moment when you don't know what to do..
Posted: 2020-09-24 17:08:45
I am inclined to agree. If he wants to reconnect, he will. He paid you for the night and its now over. I know you probably are a caring person but there are unspoken boundaries in the client/wg relationship. If he never said staight up you're free to contact him, don't do it.
On 2020-09-24 16:58:17 King Pin said:
He just wanted to book you for the night plus he was drunk you implied mos heyy?
He's probably sober with his girlfriend now.
I am inclined to agree. If he wants to reconnect, he will. He paid you for the night and its now over. I know you probably are a caring person but there are unspoken boundaries in the client/wg relationship. If he never said staight up you're free to contact him, don't do it.
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