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Respect The Word NO
Posted: 2020-07-29 13:36:22
I had to do something I wish I would never have been in the position to have to do.
One if my regulars visited me today and I set out clear boundaries. After having to say NO to bareback a few times and NO to another explicit thing twice and forewarning hom that if I have to say NO one more time I WILL tell you to leave. Unfortunately he overstepped and ignored my boundaries so I got up and told him to leave.
Why do we get regulars that think because they are regulars and pay well that our boundaries suddenly do not apply to them anymore?
Especially when the boundaries were made CLEAR beforehand.
One if my regulars visited me today and I set out clear boundaries. After having to say NO to bareback a few times and NO to another explicit thing twice and forewarning hom that if I have to say NO one more time I WILL tell you to leave. Unfortunately he overstepped and ignored my boundaries so I got up and told him to leave.
Why do we get regulars that think because they are regulars and pay well that our boundaries suddenly do not apply to them anymore?
Especially when the boundaries were made CLEAR beforehand.
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Re: Respect The Word NO
Posted: 2020-07-29 13:38:00
Not cool at all, whether regular or not. Sorry for your experience :(
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Re: Respect The Word NO
Posted: 2020-07-29 13:40:22
Familiarity breeds contempt
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Re: Respect The Word NO
Posted: 2020-07-29 18:29:48
Respect for one another is paramount, no matter who you are and what you do.
Sorry you had to get to the stage of kicking him out and what he put you through, but glad you could be true to who you are through it.
Sorry you had to get to the stage of kicking him out and what he put you through, but glad you could be true to who you are through it.
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Re: Respect The Word NO
Posted: 2020-07-29 18:35:06
Shame - he is in any case brain dead or already HIV+ when demanding bareback.
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