Came across the advert of a girl I used to visit 2 years back. Made a booking. Two years back she was bubbly person. Sad to say not the same anymore. Body wise and some clear inducation she has gone downhill. After chatting she said she wishess she can get out. But can't. This is sad really.

In a normal 9 to 5 day we are exposed to stress, and a large number of people can't manage it. Now imagine the mental strength required to survive in this industry, it is mind blowing. As in any industry some people make it out alive and well on the other side, others are unfortunately not that lucky, and became part of the sad statistics of the job.
To each and every lady on ESA, hats off to you for being able to survive, whether it is a day, a week a month or years that you have been plying your trade to keep us men happy. Men are not the easiest of animals to entertain at times, so to you all
I SALUTE YOU.
May you find the courage and wisdom to know when to call it a day, and leave the industry before it is too late?

@Yewrev well said sir.."give the man and the ladies a case of Bells". We are quick to criticize without putting ourselves in there shoes. I can't even imagine how mentally strong these lovely ladies must be.

So I SALUTE all the lovely ladies to, and thank them for what they do for us with a smile on there face.

True that.

That's why it's always sad to hear of girls committing suicide. Others succumb to heavy drugs and alcohol as coping mechanisms.

There are some ladies I know who entered the industry in their early 20's and are still here in their 40's. It's not my place to ask them but I often wonder and hope that have saved up enough money for their old age, especially the ones who didn't study or started sideline businesses. As it is, there are a few WGs in their 60's operating and it makes me so wonder.

I saw this stat the other day

"The average life expectancy in America is 78 years. The average life expectancy of a porn star is only 37 years. No, I don't mean career life expectancy. I mean actual life. "

And I think that been a wg would be 10 x worse than been a porn star..

On 2017-06-30 07:54:16 Doubleslappedass said:


And I think that been a wg would be 10 x worse than been a porn star..

I would think being a porn star is 10x worse than being a WG. Porn stars have a public glare on them and they become has beens and washed up pretty quickly.

On 2017-06-30 07:56:59 Se_kaas said:
On 2017-06-30 07:54:16 Doubleslappedass said:

And I think that been a wg would be 10 x worse than been a porn star..


I would think being a porn star is 10x worse than being a WG. Porn stars have a public glare on them and they become has beens and washed up pretty quickly.

If you have Netflix watch Life after porn 2. Very interesting....

This girls in this industry most of them do it with out family knowing it. They always have to cover up with some excuse. VERY FEW of them actually safe money for future days. They support there children or family. They don't have the time or money to look for normal jobs out side. I don't have the facts but think only the Top girls that are popular do manage to safe some money. But most girls here is day to day, week to week,month to month. For them to set aside some money to buy and collect things for there future don't happen. Very few get out. They get stuck in this lifestyle. Hustle everyday. My hats off to them.

I knew a girl at school. She was always happy, laughing, making jokes, etc.
She left school in Std 8 and I never heard from her again.
A few years ago I met her by chance at a shopping mall. I didn't recognise her, she recognised me.
She looked awful, I could see she has sufferred hugely in her life. She told me she battled to find a job when she left school and the only work she could get was to be a secretary.
She said she hated every moment of it, but had to do it for the money. She said she smiled a lot for the boss, and said exactly what he wanted to hear and pretended she liked him, but deep down she hated him.
She still works for him but said she would do anything to get out of the lifestyle.

On 2017-06-30 14:01:39 Mike40 said:
I knew a girl at school. She was always happy, laughing, making jokes, etc.
She left school in Std 8 and I never heard from her again.
A few years ago I met her by chance at a shopping mall. I didn't recognise her, she recognised me.
She looked awful, I could see she has sufferred hugely in her life. She told me she battled to find a job when she left school and the only work she could get was to be a secretary.
She said she hated every moment of it, but had to do it for the money. She said she smiled a lot for the boss, and said exactly what he wanted to hear and pretended she liked him, but deep down she hated him.
She still works for him but said she would do anything to get out of the lifestyle.

So are you saying every job/industry can have a kak affect on someone?

I would tend to agree