My life before 40

Obey my parents (Tried my best)
Decided at age 2 to become a rebel...
Decided that I never wanted to be like the girl next door...
Always asked God why He made me a girl, and not a boy... I hated being a girl... I thought I was cursed by an angry witch...
Never had a boyfriend...
Did my matric only for the dress, shoes and hair... (the first time I ever looked pretty) and decided to accept myself as a girl...
Did my N6 Secretarial diploma only because my aunt threatened me with her will...
Fell pregnant with my first boyfriend at age 20...
Married the bastard only to get a house at Yskor...
Divorced the bastard 16 months later and realised I was pregnant with my second son...
Met a beautiful soul who raised my kids for 8 years, but unfortunately died at age 43...
Did my crying in the rain with the waves splashing over my face so that no one could hear my cries... It took me 4 years to get over him... He was the first man who could ever tame me, and turn me into a somebody and not a nobody...

My life after 40

Four years later I married another bastard for what I believe was 10 happily years...
Then he got bored and left me for a young girl...
Two years later she left him for a young man... (KARMA)... and when he finally asked me to come back home, was when I realised what a strong independent woman I had become...

He thought his money, cars, houses, expensive hollidays will make me come back... but in stead I looked at him, smiled, thanked him for my gastric bypass before he left me, which is the result of now being sexy for other men...
I told him that I had become an escort and don't need his charity anymore... and that I moved on with my life...
Realised that I do have a voice... and that it's okay to speak my mind, whether they like it or not...
I could tell people to FUCK OFF without feeling bad...
I become a grand mother and mother all at ones... she's a gift from above... the second person who can tame my rebellious and wild side, cause I'm all she have... and she's all I have...

I realised how wonderful life can be... not always easy but to be thankful for the journeys that made me strong and being able to cope on my own... and become independent is a gift that no money can buy...

Life is like a train ride... some left the next station, some never leave and some take the seat next to you till the end... and every person have a story to tell...

I might be an escort but Im in charge of my own life now... Im more blessed with punters than with husbands... and I thank God for everyone entering my life... also for my precious gift, cause Im not alone anymore... I have her little arms wrapped around my neck, cuddling me and kissing me, and telling me that she loves me around the world and back... Im so grateful for my life after 40... Surely my best years...

Thanks for great story Ms Paige! Make me smile

Love this, well done

Well done @Ms Paige you indeed are a strong woman. Some struggle to find their feet after being knocked down. You dear have not.

Glad you are a happy, vibrant, independent woman enjoying life after 40

Keep it up

Ziske xoxo

Thank you Mila...
Thank you Shoeguy
Thank you Ziske... for your kind words... :)))

Much respect to you Miss Paige.. Wish u nothing but happiness..

Wow, thanks for sharing. Sounds like you have had it all in your life already but keep on smiling and living life to the fullest.

Your welcome dear shyguyct... have a blessed 2019

Amazing - keep it up and stay strong.

So glad that you have found some good after all the bad things life is full of surprises and the best ones comes after pain. Always keep your pretty head up and show the world you are a beautiful Independent Lady.