It beats me why so many ladies use a prop to hide the belly fat or baby pooch in their pics.

We all can see the lie of it all which less attractive than the honesty of showing ur true self.

Once we walk through the door the expectation is crushed by the reality. Not by the pot belly but rather the deception.

Don't get me wrong please, I'm a feminist but a realist and we should not let those natural looks be seen as anything other than the reality of life.

Women should be wear those pot bellies like we men do.

Society has us brain washed into unrealistic ideals.

Pot belly still gives good loving.

Somehow can't see an advertiser stating, "pot belly" under her build or body shape category.

They don't have to state it but rather just be more liberal when doing photo shoots.

It's revolutionary world we living in. I wonder how many of pics the ladies do use is with the "clever" advice from photographers.

I see past the tricks but the newbies feel like they getting caught out.

GM get to see more detail and make better choices.

And thats why I advertise as a bbw. So guys are not surprised by what they get. Strictly speaking I am on the smaller side of bbw. I wear a 38 pants and 42 top because of my boobs. I have a pot belly and I realised my last photoshoot did me no favours by making me look thinner.

On 2019-11-23 10:14:41 Bbw Nadia said:
And thats why I advertise as a bbw. So guys are not surprised by what they get. Strictly speaking I am on the smaller side of bbw. I wear a 38 pants and 42 top because of my boobs. I have a pot belly and I realised my last photoshoot did me no favours by making me look thinner.

Kudos to you Nadia, we all should comfortable with our body type. You have the positive attitude of a happy soul.

Like Wimpy's hamburger looks exactly as served?

Just saying.

Showing an advertiser at her best angles is not meant to be deceptive.
It's just taking the best attributes and highlighting those.

Marketing.

#See my droopy tits.

Nobody in the world is perfect.
I learned long ago to forget about trying to find the perfect person, either in looks or in character.

If a lady has a bit of a pot belly or her thighs are perceived by some as too big etc it doesn't worry me in the slightest.
As for character, many of us try to be good people, but sometimes we fail. We all make mistakes, nobody is perfect.

On 2019-11-23 16:13:24 Sage said:
Like Wimpy's hamburger looks exactly as served?

Just saying.

Showing an advertiser at her best angles is not meant to be deceptive.
It's just taking the best attributes and highlighting those.

Marketing.

#See my droopy tits.

I used the wimpy burger analogy last year on a similar topic but this is different.
Highlighting your best side using make up to enhance what is there is cool.

By the way.
Push up bras are for men's eye candy or for a woman's self-esteem???

No man ever walked around with a strategically placed sock or banana in his trousers toting a an exaggerated member.
LOL imagine your disappointment when the truth is out.

I guess this is 1 that's going to let's agree to disagree.

@sage u are exceptionally talented and your burger tastes much better than it looks. That's what really matters to me.

I have lots of loose skin around my belly... and yes... I will hide it from my pics... why should I show it if it's the worst part of my body??? Seriously????

Are you Mr. South Africa? Do you have a 6 pack? Gym body? Handsome hunk? Why looking down on a lady with a pot belly?

I concentrate on what is working for me... and what is selling me... my face and boobs... Should you end up at my door and don't like what you see... you are more than welcome to turn around and go home... I won't hold it against you... neither will I ask for a cancellation fee... :))) It takes two to tango... :)))

@Shane8

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@sage u are exceptionally talented and your burger tastes much better than it looks. That's what really matters to me.