Need some advice. What's the thoughts on "discuss extras in room"?

Is it worth it in your experience? Any red flags to look at for?

usually not, but it also means that what you are looking for is available at a premium that will be decided on the spot

On 2026-02-28 12:58:10 R2D4 said:
usually not, but it also means that what you are looking for is available at a premium that will be decided on the spot

Not necessarily. It's a safety concern for the provider due to potential hidden aliases behind the person enquiring

On 2026-02-28 12:41:10 Prophet1 said:
Need some advice. What's the thoughts on "discuss extras in room"?

Is it worth it in your experience? Any red flags to look at for?

It is just a way for the lady in question to screen her clients without offending them. Just be careful of getting caught up in the moment and having regrets when you think of how much you spent.

Never discuss in the room...you about to be fleeced.

Worst idea you could have. Always get all information needed upfront. If I don't have full information and full agreement on what's taking place, I dont book.

First hand advice.
Never discuss extras in the room.
1. In the heat of the moment, do u want to negotiate or just pay whatever she asks?

2. You only have so much time with her. Why waste it on discussing about extras

Discuss everything on whatsapp and when u get to the booking u know exactly what u came there to do and u only brought the amount that was agreed on with maybe a 100 extra for a tip if u want to.

And thats one of the reasons we like to answer to whatsapp messages.

When you hear that, move on.
99,9% of the time you are going to pay wayyy more...

Women know that when you discuss in the room you probably thinking with your hard on and not with grey matter.
If they dont offer what you want the will say so and if they do offer it they will let you know before hand.
The big thing is you then forced to go in with your card instead of cash because you wouldn't have known how much cash to take with you.
Don't fall for it you gonna regret it as soon as you loose your hard on after you jizz

I'm of the general consensus that you shouldn't "discuss in the room" and that's how I've conducted myself for many years.

Eish but gents, there are some I'm willing to make concessions for on that aspect. But even then, I believe that on the first meeting we can just stick to the standard menu, but if there's enough pull then on subsequent meetings we can then maybe go into extras once I know what's the ticket price.

To be frank, I'm actually saying this with a particular hun in mind who goes by Meilin (ad active). I've got the hots for her bad, but it's a "discuss in the room", but I'm willing to risk it all.