So this is for me always the dilema. Do you stick to your regular WG who you know , who knows you, you have this awesome chemistry with, you know each others likes and dislikes and you are always guarnteed an amazing Shag or do you risk it with the possibility of meeting a new WG who is even more amazing than than your regular or who could be someone you have no chemistry with and ends up been a big dissapointment. I tend to be a punter who goes with what I know and am fortunate to have a regular for the last 8 or so years, who operates independantly and has not been on this site for the last 8 years and always delivers the most amazing experience but I see some lovely ladies on this site and wonder, do I book with someone new

8yrs! - That sounds like a gf or a wife.
ESA is for variety.
Give three shots to the regular and one to newbies. 3:1 ratio recommendation.

I have the same dilemma.
I do a 1 new, 1 regular.
Then if a had fun with the new I go new and new until a bad punt. Then back to the regular.

I normally do about 3 punts a week. I try to do at least 1 new punt in 2 weeks among the 6 punts in 2 weeks. That way you find new regulars.

Choices, choices, choices. I like to read the reviews, then choose a lady. It is not often that I make a return visit

I prefer booking new because of the thrill of finding something special BUT I tend to book regulars as it's wild out there and not worth the gamble. You know what you getting for how much with regulars so it's pretty much a guarantee mostly that you are going to have the good time you expect and you are going to get value for your money.

However, regulars tend to move around in this day and age so availability and location could be a problem and that's when I may be adventurous and try someone new but most times I'm able to hold out and wait for a good regular to come back or be available when I'm also available.

JP69

On 2026-06-20 17:07:15 Cubano said:
8yrs! - That sounds like a gf or a wife.
ESA is for variety.
Give three shots to the regular and one to newbies. 3:1 ratio recommendation.

I have a few regulars that I've been seeing for the past 6-8 years. They take breaks from esa here and there and I don't contact them when they're taking a break. Service is still consistent.

New ladies is a bit of a gamble unless there are reviews from a few trusted punters.

The problem with a regular is that eventually they start taking you for granted and put in less effort and complain more instead of realising that having you as a regular should be worth putting in more effort

It helps having more than one regular and accepting the high price of finding a new one that ticks all your boxes. As my cravings change on a weekly basis, I will visit that regular who caters to my craving. As I am unattached, I tend to spoil them sometimes by taking them out to lunch just to maintain that special connection!

On 2026-06-22 12:48:13 richard_styff said:
The problem with a regular is that eventually they start taking you for granted and put in less effort and complain more instead of realising that having you as a regular should be worth putting in more effort

Agree!