Hello gents.
I am a married man - I love my wife and our life together - However I have these urges and desires to meet and play with escorts. Working woman are my kryptonite.
Now the issue is, I really dont want to cheat on my wife, upset her and potentially ruin what we have together.. Is anyone in a similar position? Anyone with some advice? Thanks in advance

Most married men are in this predicament. We all eish the wish met all of our needs so we never have to look elsewhere but that's impossible. And many are happy with all the other aspects of life as a whole, except this very important part.

It's not cheating if you pay for it and don't have any emotional attachment. That was my justification.

JP69

On 2026-07-17 15:27:41 20cm said:
Hello gents.
I am a married man - I love my wife and our life together - However I have these urges and desires to meet and play with escorts. Working woman are my kryptonite.
Now the issue is, I really dont want to cheat on my wife, upset her and potentially ruin what we have together.. Is anyone in a similar position? Anyone with some advice? Thanks in advance

My advice is simple. Dive in, or run like hell in the opposite direction and delete your account.

On another post you've asked for ladies that offer a non-sexual service.

Now, 2 things stand out for me.

1) This industry is genuinely a very slippery slope. Chances are that before you know it you're deep down the rabbit hole doing stuff you never thought you would.

2) Even if you keep this down to cuddling, touching, just 'innocent' sensual stuff to make up for what you're not getting at home, do you really think your wife will find the distinction a satisfying answer or will she consider it cheating anyway. And that's IF she even believes you weren't having sex, which I doubt will be the case.

I suggest you make that decision sooner rather than later, but either way, make sure to get a punting sim. If you use your actual name or number in any of this you WILL be bitten.

There is a huge difference and a very fine line, between Love and Lust.
Sometime, we mistake one for the other.

Ive got advice for u. Since u have two posts running to comment on. Do roleplaying. Let her dressup as a prostitute and just pay her. Maybe she wil go that extra mile now that she is geting paid for it. But u only want to touch a woman. Just go touch ur wife FFS

Wow! Where is the wow reaction button.

Are we all that fucked up that we lash out at the OP, on a matter that is as JP puts it

On 2026-07-17 15:40:12 JackParrow69 said:
Most married men are in this predicament.

Bruh, i hear you. You're not wrong. The main advice is; if you're going to the public pool to swim, dive in and get wet. If you're not and just want the splashes, pack up and go home.

Understand what you're here for, seek it and get it. Otherwise you'll forever be stuck

How can something that you've never done be your kryptonite.
This while scenario is fake.

On 2026-07-17 15:40:12 JackParrow69 said:
Most married men are in this predicament. We all eish the wish met all of our needs so we never have to look elsewhere but that's impossible. And many are happy with all the other aspects of life as a whole, except this very important part.

It's not cheating if you pay for it and don't have any emotional attachment. That was my justification.

JP69

Tell that to your wife JP

If you love her enough, tell her what you seek and im certain she will oblige. Marriage is sacred, dont do this to her