I've noticed some men come in with a literal grocery list of requirements, but they forget to bring the energy. You can't "order" chemistry like a pizza. To me, a man's vibe is the difference between a "transaction" and a "core memory"

Let's settle the debate:

GENTLEMEN: What's more important to you?
A girl who checks every mechanical box on your "service" list, or a girl you actually have a witty, electric connection with?
Can you have one without the other?

LADIES: Does it kill the mood for you when a guy treats the encounter like a technical inspection instead of an experience?

MY TAKE: I'm a teaser by nature and I live to please, but I've found that the best "juices dripping" moments happen when the checklist is thrown out the window and the manners take over.
Skill is easy to find; Soul is rare.


Which side do you bet your money on? Skill or connection?

The flow of chemistry makes the session.

Spot on, Jr. But in your experience, is that chemistry something you can feel right from the first hello, or does it take time to build up during the session?

Often the minute I walk into the room , sometimes it takes a bit of time .
On one occasion the girl was much bigger than I expected and I wanted to walked out again . She apologized for the outdated picture said she understood . No cancelation fees etc. That made me change my mind and we had a great session.

Chemistry is everything surely it paves the way for skills to flow with ease