Over the last few months, I've noticed that several ladies aren't taking bookings in advance.

The ladies basically say they only take bookings on the day. When I call or WhatsApp, on the day, I'm told they are booked for the day or the time I want, and I'll have to try the next day.

I would think that ladies prefer having a booking locked in advance, and then have it confirmed on the morning. That's the way I did it previously.

Why has this change been happening - is it me or the industry?

Hie DevenM


Due to lot of time wasters and no show ups it's difficult to accept the booking indvance without a deposit

So to make it easier for you just secure your booking with the lady to avoid disappointments.

Good morning all.
Didi is correct.
I do require a 10% deposit but I'm happy to accept and honor advanced bookings.

You can still have that booking.

Pay it in advance.

Or

A deposit.

And now aint the time to argue... but what if i get scammed.
Not all the ladies are scammers like not all the punters are disrespectful time wasters.



Look to your fellow punters for playing with the SP's time and disrespecting her right to earnings.

Her time is no less valuable and is priced just like anybody else's.

Ontop of that...your earnings are guaranteed, hers are not.

The management of her diary is the answer to her financial ability to carry and support herself and family.


And thus


...to book a time off, not accept any other requests for that time and then you play her for a fool, make a donkey of her......might mean nothing to you, maybe even give you some sick personal satisfaction that you duped her....are heavy ripple effects in her life

Firstly, she does not deserve such disrespect

Secondly, it does affect her income

And

Thirdly, she loses out on good punters like yourself because your "buddies" have given her no other choice.

RB.

@ DevenM

Hi there ;) My preference is advance as live active life and more.

So best secure spot easy beasy ;)

No confirm on day orday befor or day no show I block and save u as timewaister.

Unless u call be respectfull and cancele we good.

That how I run my busness .

But as miss sexy Didi mentioned there is lot time waisters maybe reason why u noticed difference.

I stick to what works for me for years.

Warm regards
A

On 2026-02-19 08:32:38 Russian Bridgitte said:
You can still have that booking.

Pay it in advance.

Or

A deposit.

And now aint the time to argue... but what if i get scammed.
Not all the ladies are scammers like not all the punters are disrespectful time wasters.



Look to your fellow punters for playing with the SP's time and disrespecting her right to earnings.

Her time is no less valuable and is priced just like anybody else's.

Ontop of that...your earnings are guaranteed, hers are not.

The management of her diary is the answer to her financial ability to carry and support herself and family.


And thus


...to book a time off, not accept any other requests for that time and then you play her for a fool, make a donkey of her......might mean nothing to you, maybe even give you some sick personal satisfaction that you duped her....are heavy ripple effects in her life

Firstly, she does not deserve such disrespect

Secondly, it does affect her income

And

Thirdly, she loses out on good punters like yourself because your "buddies" have given her no other choice.

RB.

Respect goes both ways some of this punters likes to overstay their session without compensate the Advertiser and when the advertiser stop taking their bookings they rushed here and play victims

And some Advertiser doesn't know how to be rude or chase the punter away but doesn't mean they're dumb or easy to take advantage of

So they must not be surprised when they're blocked
And they must stop assuming the rates.
If the lady says she can't offer certain services they must stop forcing themselves.

Because of the threats of leaving bad reviews the ladies ends up allowing them..

Deposit? No way.

All the sexy ladies on hear have some good point.;)

Me, i definitely don't take deposit. Never have I just block move on ,"blockbusters" I am ha haa;)

Some my regulars that has waisted my time (after become to comfortable with me) in Past now pay for there apointment advance all good we play u learn we happily greate more memories.

It simple book advance confirm on day few hours ahead and pay when meet at apointment.

Keep it simple;)
Regards
A

I once spoke to this gentleman over the phone and he wanted to pay me with Woolworths Voucher..Anyone has an idea how does it work and how do you know the voucher is loaded?

I accept advance bookings