Posted: 2017-01-18 00:23:17
Too be honest here, @Kay-Liegh... this isn't a safe way to find a good dom, You are more then likely to find someone who will simply abuse you for their amusement with very little real knowledge of how to ensure your safety.
If you want to push the boundaries of your sub side then fine, more power to you, just please be very, very careful in choosing someone to trust if you are going to be restrained in any way.
I have known a few sub's over the last 20 years and unfortunately there are an awful lot of them that have had a terrifying experience with someone who claimed to be dom but completely ignored her safe words and left battered and bruised and scared to ever trust again.
This sounds harsh I know, but consider this space and it's intention.
My advice, if you already know an established dom (male or female) then approach them to help you find a suitable person to train you with their supervision for the first few engagements. It will be safer for you that way and having that safety will improve your experience.
I hope you find someone who will do this for you properly.