This question is for the punters and ladies.

For the women who have their WhatsApp messages set to disappear within a period of time, is it reasonable to expect a punter to enquire about the rates again?

Sometimes like to enquire to see what's out there, not really committed to punting that day. I few days later I'd be the right mood, but then find the messages are gone.

Its not unreasonable to ask for her prices again without being labeled as a time waster, is it?

Same. Just ask again. I enquire on WhatsApp so I have the details for when I'm ready to book, I can just go back and check the details there and confirm availability and book.

If the details are gone, then I ask again as I don't remember the discussion witg every wg I enquired with just as they don't remember the discussion with every punter that enquired.

I do this as comms and confirmation is usually slow so unfortunately even though I ask again, I usually end up booking elsewhere as while I'm trying to get the details again, I usually secure another booking that I already have the details for so it's quicker as just a matter of seeing if she's available and confirming. Don't need to find out if all the services are included and if the price is right and then checking availability again etc but maybe next time if the details are still there and I can get quick responses to confirm booking.

As far as being labelled as a time waster, that's quite ridiculous. If the guy doesn't have the details and is asking again, he's obviously interested so he's asking again. His time would be wasted too. Even if the punter has the details, and keeps asking it's because things change. Wgs change locations and the price changes. Wgs have periodic specials and the price changes. Wgs have increases. Wgs price differently at different times of the month and a punter may think it's too expensive at the previous point but checking again, it might be a price today that was not two weeks ago or 6 months ago. Also prevents any awkward situations of arriving with exact cash and then being told that was the old rates and changed yesterday or after the last enquiry. Just ask and if she gets her panties in a knot and labels you a time waster, at least you don't waste your time and money booking her.

JP69

On 2025-10-05 09:49:56 YourChunkyFunkiness said:
This question is for the punters and ladies.

For the women who have their WhatsApp messages set to disappear within a period of time, is it reasonable to expect a punter to enquire about the rates again?

Sometimes like to enquire to see what's out there, not really committed to punting that day. I few days later I'd be the right mood, but then find the messages are gone.

Its not unreasonable to ask for her prices again without being labeled as a time waster, is it?

You do know that you can select to keep the message on your phone, it says so on the chat in that bubble text, if you click on the message you have option to keep it on your chat.

On 2025-10-05 10:58:14 Knightrider78 said:
On 2025-10-05 09:49:56

You do know that you can select to keep the message on your phone, it says so on the chat in that bubble text, if you click on the message you have option to keep it on your chat.

I didn't know that

Personally I don't have disappearing messages because I like to know what my previous messaging history is.

Did he try to haggle my fees, was he a nice guy did he honor my appointment or waste my time did he try to scam etc... So even if their messages are set to disappear I still have a trace of my messages which will be a guideline of how the communication went down but.

Ps. I label people as time waster if you made an appointment and didn't honor it. The other time I label you as a time waster is if you have made multiple inquiries and not 1 appointment I mean I can't keep giving you information over and over and over and over again and you don't make a appointment and honour it because yes then you are a time waster in my books.

Everything that JP69 said

Then there are those that set THEIR whatsapps to disappearing messages.

When I notice that, I then go and remove the disappearing messages set by the sender, in order to have future reference and understanding of our communication when contacted again.

Quite a few times I have been blocked because I removed THEIR message settings.

Does that mean the intention and queries were not honourable? Was it a time waster? Someone fishing for info for another? A female posing as a punter?



Or

....?



RB.

I do not have disappearing message setting. But once i saved the info (if she meets my services and Budget) i clear the whatsapp messages. And if i have no intention to have a booking with her, i even delete the contact. Just my way of trying to reduce risk.
And if i got bad service or picked up a rude or bitter response in the whatsapp exchanges, i save the name with a certain extension so i know to not bother again.

.....and then there are the (very clever girls) who after I've made initial whattsapp contact send me a short disappearing video of themselves.......oooof! Such good marketing. Then I'm sitting there wanting to see more of them. A bit like you catch a fleeting sight of a stunning woman in a crowd, and you want to catch sight of her again.

On 2025-10-06 16:34:34 Vrik said:
I do not have disappearing message setting. But once i saved the info (if she meets my services and Budget) i clear the whatsapp messages. And if i have no intention to have a booking with her, i even delete the contact. Just my way of trying to reduce risk.
And if i got bad service or picked up a rude or bitter response in the whatsapp exchanges, i save the name with a certain extension so i know to not bother again.

Do the same, execpt I block the number of those I don't want to visit bagain. This way I can't accidently contact them after a profile change.