I'm reaching out with an observation and seeking advice. I'm attracted to women of all races, and when I meet someone I'm interested in, my senses come alive.

However, I've often found myself in situations where I need to ask if certain women are open to seeing men of color due to concerns about potential racial preferences. This can be uncomfortable and awkward.

Given the sensitivity around race, I was wondering if it would be helpful to have a filter function that indicates preferences for interracial interactions or allows women to specify their openness to different races in their profiles.

Why Make 2 posts about this only 4mins appart

The other had an error. :(

On 2025-06-18 14:04:48 Don Corleone said:
helpful to have a filter function that indicates preferences for interracial interactions

Yes...it would be helpful. Unfortunately esa admin don't know how to build that function, so you will have to do it manually.

It would be nice if they could invest a bit in that regard. Alas, all good. No trainsmash.

It doesn't hurt to enquire my King. The responses are mostly respectful.

On 2025-06-18 14:04:48 Don Corleone said:
I'm reaching out with an observation and seeking advice. I'm attracted to women of all races, and when I meet someone I'm interested in, my senses come alive.

However, I've often found myself in situations where I need to ask if certain women are open to seeing men of color due to concerns about potential racial preferences. This can be uncomfortable and awkward.

Given the sensitivity around race, I was wondering if it would be helpful to have a filter function that indicates preferences for interracial interactions or allows women to specify their openness to different races in their profiles.

Never gona happen as some guys will boycott other ladies for seeing ppl of colour so just make the call.

That is correct. I no longer see those " some guys " and I really do not care. Not seeing men of colour will just be torture. I don't like torturing myself :)

What do you mean by "torture?"

Is there a specific trait that bugs you? Genuinely asking.

On 2025-06-18 17:59:56 KICKASS said:
On 2025-06-18 14:04:48 Don Corleone said: I'm reaching out with an observation and seeking advice. I'm attracted to women of all races, and when I meet someone I'm interested in, my senses come alive.

However, I've often found myself in situations where I need to ask if certain women are open to seeing men of color due to concerns about potential racial preferences. This can be uncomfortable and awkward.

Given the sensitivity around race, I was wondering if it would be helpful to have a filter function that indicates preferences for interracial interactions or allows women to specify their openness to different races in their profiles.

Never gona happen as some guys will boycott other ladies for seeing ppl of colour so just make the call.

Now THIS is what I value.

Not the bullshit political correctness undermining the intelligence of others and playing to an audience looking to curry favour.

RB.