I have searched the forum to find a possible answer....

Lately I noticed more and more SP's are very keen to tell you during or after a session that they have a life partner.

So my question is why?? Why is it so important that the message gets landed. This isnt a dating site and I never looked for love. So why tell a punter that?

Cause all it does is making me feel uneasy. Not into a fantasy of banging someones wife / lover.

It breaks that connection immediately and I most likely wont return. Cause in the back of my mind I am going, did I come accross desparate. Did I make her feel I want more? Did I at some point make her think I want BB??
Why else tell me that? Times have really changed.

Think your over thinking the comment.

I just take it for granted that all my clients have life partners.

Maybe they are just making conversation

I'm the opposite - I find it extremely hot and a massive turnon if she has a life partner. And way even more if she is doing it with her partner's consent.

I hate it when SPs mention their partners. Hate it, hate it, hate it. I'm single myself, and when I make a booking I really want the fantasy and emotional connection of a GFE. I remember having a conversation with a SP at the social in Novemeber and she casually mentioned her life partner. I immediately lost interest and bailed without making a booking. I think that if a punter mentions their partner first then it's fine, but if not, it's best for the sp to not mention their boyfriends/husbands/life partners because it can be off putting.

I think a lot of punters will ask questions as to why she is doing this and whether she is in a relationship etc.
Personally I would prefer that she not offer information about her partner.

I totally agree. Had SP's tell me about their kids and even show me pictures.
It's nice when you connect with someone but telling me about your family totally ruins the mood.

I am different, if I want the partner fantacy I would ask for it, then go for it. Have a full MMF seasion.
But when I book you for a one on one, I love the GFE. I dont want to hear about your plans for tonight or what you guys did over the weekend. You lose me there and then.
Just something I have picked up in my last few outings. Never been an issue before.

On 2025-02-07 13:33:44 Gav31 said:
I'm the opposite - I find it extremely hot and a massive turnon if she has a life partner. And way even more if she is doing it with her partner's consent.

I'm with this guy.
I don't know what it is, maybe the taboo......, But find it extremely arousing.

On 2025-02-07 13:49:59 t_1993 said:
I hate it when SPs mention their partners. Hate it, hate it, hate it. I'm single myself, and when I make a booking I really want the fantasy and emotional connection of a GFE. I remember having a conversation with a SP at the social in Novemeber and she casually mentioned her life partner. I immediately lost interest and bailed without making a booking. I think that if a punter mentions their partner first then it's fine, but if not, it's best for the sp to not mention their boyfriends/husbands/life partners because it can be off putting.

T_1993....... totally agree.

What is extremely sad is when a SP tells you how she gets abused by her partner!!