There are those who feel unheard, not seen.

Those who struggle to express themselves, who feel judged .

Those that feel the pressure of self doubt, what next...who next.

Is there true care? Understanding? Dare one imagine there is hope to that lonely feeling , the aloneness weighing heavy.


Many who could do with a hug, a silence serene.

Just a space to breathe, let go.

And should you feel for that sort of companionship, maybe even a call....just to chat.


I look fwd to hearing from you.

It may sound silly, daunting to take that first step to reach out.

It is ok to feel like that.

Take a deep breath, trust and know , it is ok to want to share in the company of another or just chat.

I am here.

Information available on request.

RB.

Once again....

It is the season to be festive and silly.

While many shall celebrate, so many more may feel the burden of a year gone by where the challenges have crippled every belief and hope of better times to come.

Where a hug is yearned for.

A silence serene, not feeling alone and lonely, hiding behind a smile... is a place wished for.

Just to let go....even for a minute.


Human contact. Closeness. A hug.

The wonders of this " Purple World", a magic that many may look in on and slander and judge.

But.

The humaneness that can be found in THIS, trumps all the judgement and labels society deems fit to pass on it.

I look forward to YOU...you who may feel for nothing more than a moment of letting go and just...

BEING.

I hug you close.

x

Is it possible to let ones guard down, dare to say ...

"I am feeling lonely "

" I am feeling beaten"....


In this space of cloak and dagger where discretion is questionable and secrets shared, indiscriminately with ones "next best friend", posted for all to read, loyalty fickle and....money the drive.

Could it be that a hug is sincere, a smile truly from the heart...an agenda non-existent.

Could it be that words are few and the need is understood....or....to spill the beans ,a gush of pent up emotions, uncertainties, struggles.

Could it be that all one needs is another just to be there.

Sometimes the very physical ,sex....makes one feel even worse.

Sometimes the comfort of closeness is all that is needed.

Sometimes a call is all that it takes...I hear you.

I look fwd to ...YOU

Privacy and discretion has always been my go to and yours is GUARANTEED .

x

So what that this is a site where bodily pleasures are sort.

Companionship can be more than just that nakedness that stirs the loins.

Being in the company of another does know to settle a restless mind, that feeling of loneliness less heavy, a laugh begin to gurgle.

Getting happily tipsy without pushing the boundaries.

A bite to eat tastier.

Music , events , books...any topic on the table to chat about.

A hug warm.

A body snug.

A letting go.

It IS different. It sounds too real.

But...why not.

It is the festive season after all and maybe one is looking for something more than a sexy share.



Be it a chat or a cuddle close (without nakedness if that be your choice).

Boundaries as always, are respected.


I am looking fwd to YOU.


And, as always, privacy and discretion is GUARANTEED...as is sincerity.

x.

Once again...reminded that the heart is not just an organ that keeps us alive but, feels every emotion...that deep self awareness of roller coaster emotions.

From the very happy , to the very sad...to the numb.

The expectation , it being the festive season where merry and jolly is the aspiration, that deeper sadness of aloneness /loneliness, more intense.

...because wherever one looks families regroup, friends meet and parties and holidays are planned.

It is neither embarrassing nor weak to reach out and share.

A hug close.

A peck on the cheek most welcome .

A cuddle relaxing and comfortable.

Or

A sharing of self in conversation maybe light or, an unburdening.

Always to remember, one is NOT alone and should you feel for this sort of intimacy...

Telephonically

Or

In person


Do reach out.


It need not be sexual and, there is NO judgement.

I would love to be your company.

x.

Driving back from Durban yesterday and seeing the traffic going down to Durban, had me thinking of many that won't be with family.

Maybe a relationship strained.

A relationship ended.

Maybe just a year so demanding that one feels misunderstood or alienated.

When one has time to think without interruption and delve deep wondering what sort of comfort would make one feel better?

How does one make another feel less lonesome.

To box it and apply a "one fit all" solution is exactly why many may feel lonely and alone.

The expectation of what "content happiness" is and, what it looks like, making one feel a hopelessness.

Much masked in hard work, fickle and superficial "friendships", leaving one feeling misunderstood and drained .

If only.

A BIG, if only.

It is that if only that gnaws away at one.

I am here.

Company comfortable, relaxed.

A conversation without tension.




I look fwd to YOU.


x.

Don't be shy to ask how this works.

Many going on leave.

Many wondering what to do next.

Many just feel for a relaxing chat...an off burdening.

A laugh is many a time the best medicine over an informal share of foodies or cake and coffee.

Looking fwd to YOU.

x.

It is cool in jhb . That old wife's tale than rains on a special day predict blessed prosperity.

I like old wife's tales.

To those who feel a little challenged, a little lonely, a little out of sorts.

To those who may have had a year from "hell" , uncertainties still unresolved, feeling misunderstood.

To those that need to know.

YOU are not alone. YOU have an inner strength that shall grow even stronger, courage immense, WILL succeed and, these challenges now, will be overcome like all others that you have.

I know easier said than done, and all I have written may just be words.

BUT...do take strength and believe....YOU WILL BE MORE THAN JUST OK.

I am just a phone call away, a text message away .

Enjoy the silliness of my whatsapp status updates.

As it is the festive season...it is meant to make you laugh.

Hug you close.

x.

...and even though songs.

May they sound glorious in your ears.

To ALL who need to hear and know.

YOU are AWESOME!!!

And no, not trying to convert or push down anybody's throat any belief or practice of faith.

To ME...this knows to lift MY SPIRIT, MY SOUL...and thus to share, I do hope the words do it for YOU too.

May burdens become less heavy.
May sadness be less with passing of time.
May memories of loved ones never fade and in all of that may the Almighty know to treat and care for you with kid gloves.

With true soulful love.

x.



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"....You are here touching every heart....

....You are here mending every heart...."

An easy read and many will say ok, we know that.

But, one can never be reminded enough about things one might know but, may have forgotten.

Enjoy!


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And quoting from the above article:

"...Although happiness means different things to different people, our life experiences and other extrinsic factors such as social status, education, career popularity, health, responsibilities and achievements all have a role to play in making our life complete. Some of these may combine to help you achieve your goals, while others may require no small amount of dedication to enable you to succeed. Nevertheless, every person is capable of making a success of their life in one way or another, which will give them the best chance of feeling happy and content thereafter."

I like the part about hugging and pets and doing little things for oneself.

Taking that first step is the hardest. Thereafter it becomes a good selfish healthy "addiction ".

May the happy hormones flow!

RB.