I have just been thinking loud, I think any activity during punting which involves blindfolding is a major risk.
What if the person has bad intentions.
Just thinking

Any act with a stranger is risky. Think, about what you doing. You used a phone/ number not linked to you, but then you walk in to the room, put your bag/ wallet down in her room, while you go to the next room to take a shower. You probably have a bank card or ID in your wallet with your name on it. Or maybe you left it in the car, but the car has a number plate on it, which can easily be traced to a name.

Built trust before taking on higher levels of risk. Don't just fuck people, build relationships. Or one day you'll just be fucked too.

Trust is key to his profession. It's actually pointless to hide your identity. When you find a trustworthy partner (yes partner), you've found a gold mine. Love her/ him (them) and it will be returned to you 10 fold.

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For me, I used to be/ still am ... extremely claustrophobic. Not even my wife could tie me up, let alone blind fold me without sending me into a panic attack. I'm pleased to say a few ladies on this site have helped me overcome this ...

On 2024-03-21 20:04:04 International Fucker said:
I have just been thinking loud, I think any activity during punting which involves blindfolding is a major risk.
What if the person has bad intentions.
Just thinking

When you trust someone enough the session is amazing as the sensation is increase and (depending on what your discussion with the service provider was, sensual or BDSM) you never know if it's going to be a kids in your neck or a deep slow blow that happens neck or it's a flogger or a sounding instrument etc) thee thing is you need to select someone who caters to the fetish and who has a good reputation as far as service delivery goes and not someone who's work ethics are questionable.

If I may say some have trusted me to blindfolds them and tie them down and they have returned for morea.

On 2024-03-22 08:46:40 J_J said:
Any act with a stranger is risky. Think, about what you doing. You used a phone/ number not linked to you, but then you walk in to the room, put your bag/ wallet down in her room, while you go to the next room to take a shower. You probably have a bank card or ID in your wallet with your name on it. Or maybe you left it in the car, but the car has a number plate on it, which can easily be traced to a name.

Built trust before taking on higher levels of risk. Don't just fuck people, build relationships. Or one day you'll just be fucked too.

Trust is key to his profession. It's actually pointless to hide your identity. When you find a trustworthy partner (yes partner), you've found a gold mine. Love her/ him (them) and it will be returned to you 10 fold.

___

For me, I used to be/ still am ... extremely claustrophobic. Not even my wife could tie me up, let alone blind fold me without sending me into a panic attack. I'm pleased to say a few ladies on this site have helped me overcome this ...

With the right person this can be overcome claustrophobia is a fear based energy you just need to find the source to the trigger and release it from there. Once again trust is key.

It's a no no for me I do trust but not to this level

I agree with Arwen. You need to select a SP that is trustworthy

I do all kinds of fetishes but there is always a discussion prior to session.

There are boundaries and PRO understands this.

A very sensual aspects is what I refer to as sensual BDSM. Not necessarily pain based it can be a Tantric massage with tie and tease

One there is trust ... it is not an issue but takes time ...

Oooooo!

Many many who love my blindfold.

But, yes. It is about trust and me being able to put a blindfold on another on first meet is a HUGE compliment..


Then again...how easily would I succumb.

Not that easy.

I think a woman is under greater threat than a man in the space of fuckery in my opinion and if the lady is a true professional , whoever may cross her path, that person has very little to fear or worry about if all boundaries are understood and accepted by both parties.


Why would I not succumb so easily?....even though I ask for trust?

Because I know me very well and unfortunately, I don't know YOU enough ...x





RB.

On 2024-03-22 10:47:26 Russian Bridgitte said:



Then again...how easily would I succumb.

Not that easy.

RB.

To blindfold RB and tie her up ... my mind is ...

Another thought, what does it feel like to hold such power over someone; bound, naked, vulnerable. From the bound persons perspective, that feeling of vulnerability coupled with pleasure is probably one of the best one can imagine; especially when he/ she has been on a power trip. It's the same, to a lesser extent, but similar ... when going for a massage ... another holding your most sensitive parts in their hands. One wrong move can cause serious injury, but the right moves enormous pleasure. Sex, on the other hand is a different dynamic if the punter is in control.

Rambling went a bit off, what was I saying, oh ... hmm, wondering what that level of control feels like, for the person holding it in that moment ...

Blindfold sessions are great fun, even more so if you don't know who the SP is.

A venue in Pta / Centurion offered such a service. You as punter were only allowed to remove your blindfold, once you could correctly identify the SP giving you the sensual massage.

Wishing there were more venues where such services are available.