Anyone else feel eternal loneliness? Dating. married etc.

Ladies pls do not use This an opportunity to advertise "come and see me and chat". this is a real life problem..I'm not asking for a service or fantasy. Thanks

Are some of us doomed for eternal loneliness???

On 2023-09-17 18:57:25 Bruceban said:
Anyone else feel eternal loneliness? Dating. married etc.

Ladies pls do not use This an opportunity to advertise "come and see me and chat". this is a real life problem..I'm not asking for a service or fantasy. Thanks

Are some of us doomed for eternal loneliness???

Hey Bruceban,

I know of two friends that are desperately lonely and are finding it harder and harder to find a descent lady that is not gold diggers, psycho's or drug damaged ladies.

It happens quickly for some and longer for others.

Don't give up! Don't stop putting yourself out there!

THE RIGHT PERSON WILL COME!

Hugs from Shelley

Hun
We are all lonely in some way.... some more than others.
Sadly this world is evolving too fast and becoming very money oriented.
I'm not speaking to you as a SP.... but as a fellow human being, that knows loneliness inside out...
You're not alone
Sending you love and light

There's someone for everyone out there... some are just harder to find I guess

Xoxo
Hugs
Mila

I too struggle with loneliness. The weekdays I'm occupied with work. The weekends are the most difficult

Try watching the video 'Existential Bummer'.

XoXo

On 2023-09-17 18:57:25 Bruceban said:
Anyone else feel eternal loneliness? Dating. married etc.

Ladies pls do not use This an opportunity to advertise "come and see me and chat". this is a real life problem..I'm not asking for a service or fantasy. Thanks

Are some of us doomed for eternal loneliness???

My reply is this.

I GET YOU...

You not alone in this sentiment.

C.

Loneliness IS like a disease.

One can sit in a room full of people and feel totally disassociated, lonely and alone.

One can be in a relationship and feel lonely. It is not about being alone...it is that gnaw, that hankering to be seen, loved , feel part of...something. To be appreciated for the person one is.

Our modern times do not help much.

But....for time eternal many have felt the agony of loneliness.

Is it a soul more sensitive? Vibrating at another frequency? Looking in at the times and feeling totally disassociated?
Lost...worthless.

Can another person fix that loneliness in one? Can there be a time such a gnaw can just disappear?

South Africa....not conducive to a balanced lifestyle of any sort.

From living on the edge economically, to always fearful of crime, to being scammed to being abused, segregation promoted by the treasonous government...so little time to enjoy family and friends and selfish laziness in a surrounding non threatening or demanding. No balance between social, private and professional....no matter the space occupied.

When one understand the cause of one's loneliness and realizes one ain't alone in such a debilitating state for, one is not an island...that much could be due to things out of one's control possibly and then looks to address those challenges in a way less threatening and mor manageable, adding to one's state of sanity...then begins the slow healing of "loneliness".

I think the world in general walks around in this virtual bubble where much is "unseen" and false realities are forced hoping it shall bring some reprieve to one's state of loneliness...NOT aloneness for, being alone and happier than a piggy in shit... loving the solitude being a choice of many too.

The obvious for me that adds to this "loneliness" is this zany "woke" movement, anything and everything goes, the need to be politcally correct even when one knows it is bullshit...WTF!?!?!?!?!

...and thus lonelier and lonelier, more lost becomes the world at the mercy of those in power, the conglomerates, the power hungry to do with the citizens of the world as the please. ...the psychology of mass control

No I am not a fatalistic...just looking in on the reality of the world I live in.

Be strong .

RB.

Stay strong....this too will pass. You will meet someone who will take your loneliness away. Temporarily, you can take up a bit of travelling. That's a good way to keep you occupied and meet new people.

On 2023-09-18 09:54:46 uwillwantme said:
Stay strong....this too will pass. You will meet someone who will take your loneliness away. Temporarily, you can take up a bit of travelling. That's a good way to keep you occupied and meet new people.

I have to ask....

Why do u believe another would make him feel less lonely?

RB

RB.... so true Hun


Stay strong all you beautiful humans

Lots of love

Mila