Guess she had to hang up the dirty laundry on the forum to get ready for the backlash from her now former ex- before things get even more nasty. That can not have been an easy decision - putting up personal issues out in the open like that.
Why am I posting..well beacuse I recently had a booking with an SP and she was a nervous wreck,from an incident she had recently..her issue pretty much ruined my punt..so yeah...it can indirectly affect us "normal" punters. So yeah while I provided a shoulder to cry on, there was gona be no dick to ride on in this booking..ended up giving the wg a massage and a comforting chat. Suppose it was the manly thing to do..no ways was I gona take advantage of that situation aswell...
Weirdly atleast 3 wgs recently have informed me of abusive ex's/ stalkers and constant harrasment by some punters. Not sure why they wished to share this info,I am no psychologist but i guess talking about these things helps.
Initially, I thought they may have been exaggerating a bit and were perhaps looking for attention(sp tricks of the trade) but then got shown some of the messages and evidence....DAMN!!!
Some of you ladies are living in fear daily(dare i say a nightmare)..which is mind boggling, As a fairly well built guy, i dont really pay attention to spam calls/msgs(not that i get any to be fair), suppose road rage or unruly buggers at the pub,etc... is more relateable to me
Thinking about this...as the fairer and "weaker" sex , i can imagine that this must take an extremely emotional toll on the psyche.
My default advice is/was: worst case to get a gun and a protection order but thinking about this...this doesnt really solve any problems. The gun is not exactly easy to conceal or reach,eg when ur nude/vulnerable in a booking and the police are downright useless these days.
Imagine being followed around a mall/ or getting spammed with abusive messages and fake bookings from different numbers or being accosted at your work(venue), residence or family home...thats insane!!
I guess proactive steps are:
Self defence/ Security contact speed dial/ never work too late or do risky outcalls/ protection order...
I initially related this(as a punter) as our equivalent encounter with pimps/fake cops and aggressive drug-addicted sps...but SPs seem to have gotten the worse end of this stick.
Dunno what more I can add, maybe the forum can supply better advice etc...
Be careful out there ladies!!
Was she charging you a good rate for that? Did you tip her?
On 2023-04-12 12:18:50 Raymond Reddington said:
Let me get this right. You booked a SP, you paid her money. You consoled her, provided her a shoulder to cry on, had a chat, then massaged her instead?
Was she charging you a good rate for that? Did you tip her?
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Was her standard rate(which has not changed for me in 5 years ive known her)not current one.. a semi regular of mine, known each other for a while.
Treats me very well(and i glady reciprocate), our bookings generally go way over time limit.
Could see she was a bit off this time, ultimately broke down after the customary chit chat and drink.
Im not an animal - so sorry, wont take advantage in a situation like that.
I guess she tried to work to take her mind of things(also to pay bills)..Sps cant exactly call in sick/take a break for a few days and still get the paycheck like the rest of us!
You must remember it is the time we pay for aswell, you will be suprised at how many wgs you see daily who are hurting etc and put on a brave face for your 30min/1 hr fantasy booking.
Also...No tip(i hardly ever tip- cant even remember the last time i tipped) - but she'l get the whole 9 yards(inches) next time!!
On 2023-04-12 12:37:15 Blade WM said:
Why stalk something you can have? Maybe I am missing the point here
The stalkers are former punters or random wack jobs...
*With former punters they prob where too aggressive/clingy/abusive -> so they cant have the SP anymore.
*with wackjobs..i dunno maybe infatuated with a specific sp ??
The one SP said she had 1 dude keep calling her from different numbers all the time..same voice,etc, also some guy was following her around the shopping mall..could they be related? who knows..but thats when you start getting paranoid..etc
So yeah i can kinda imagine that being quite distressing.
As @Michelle Savaty said.."we have no idea"... thats true..we kinda envision/picture it... but we have NO REAL grasp of the reality of what it actually means.
It comes with the territory and that is one of the reasons why I employed a security guard to protect me as well as the punters that visit me.
Just my take on the above
Sweet kisses and special hugs to all the ladies that battle with this.
Little Miss C
On 2023-04-12 12:50:10 Brakenjan69 said:
On 2023-04-12 12:18:50 Raymond Reddington said: Let me get this right. You booked a SP, you paid her money. You consoled her, provided her a shoulder to cry on, had a chat, then massaged her instead?
Was she charging you a good rate for that? Did you tip her?
############################
Was her standard rate(which has not changed for me in 5 years ive known her)not current one.. a semi regular of mine, known each other for a while.
Treats me very well(and i glady reciprocate), our bookings generally go way over time limit.
Could see she was a bit off this time, ultimately broke down after the customary chit chat and drink.
Im not an animal - so sorry, wont take advantage in a situation like that.
I guess she tried to work to take her mind of things(also to pay bills)..Sps cant exactly call in sick/take a break for a few days and still get the paycheck like the rest of us!
You must remember it is the time we pay for aswell, you will be suprised at how many wgs you see daily who are hurting etc and put on a brave face for your 30min/1 hr fantasy booking.
Also...No tip(i hardly ever tip- cant even remember the last time i tipped) - but she'l get the whole 9 yards(inches) next time!!
Good on you sir. Great job for looking out for her.
If a lady goes over time limit for me, I always make it a point to tip well if she is providing me with excellent service
On 2023-04-12 13:07:44 Caroline said:
Unfortunately women are constant victims of harassment or stalking. Lonely punters that fall in love and become obsessive and even abusive is a reality. Normal men that you meet out of the industry that discover you are an adult model or courtesan becomes controlling and possessive.
It comes with the territory and that is one of the reasons why I employed a security guard to protect me as well as the punters that visit me.
Just my take on the above
Sweet kisses and special hugs to all the ladies that battle with this.
Little Miss C
On that note, I wonder if this ever happened the other way around where a Provider would stalk the client?
On 2023-04-12 12:18:50 Raymond Reddington said:
Let me get this right. You booked a SP, you paid her money. You consoled her, provided her a shoulder to cry on, had a chat, then massaged her instead?
Was she charging you a good rate for that? Did you tip her?
The guy is a real man, I take my hat off to him. We are also human, and putting your dick in a vulnerable woman (whether you pay or not), is insensitive and 'rapey'.
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