Hey there ESA!

So over many years, I have enjoyed massages and GFE's -from budget punts to outrageous over charges. A very wide variety of lovely SP's.

Over the past year or so, I get triggered so badly that I simply close ESA.co.za. I feel nauseous to my core. What can the reason be???

*Lady Boys, Post-op ladies etc.*

Don't get me wrong, if a person like Leila B (many years on here) flashes in-front of me I don't mind at all. She does her thing and is honest about it. And, if I am honest, she has breath-taking beauty.

But JFC, girls that used to be boys, pretending and lying about it is my worst!

Disclaimer: yes I have inadvertently seen a few of these persons. Not my greatest memories....

Comments?

WOW, ask how people identify - this is a can of worms!
Not sure its a forum or profile issue, my view is to ask if you have a concern before the booking.

On 2023-01-13 11:28:09 nsasexguy said:
WOW, ask how people identify - this is a can of worms!
Not sure its a forum or profile issue, my view is to ask if you have a concern before the booking.

True.. Ask before! I would wager that unless you meet the person, it is very difficult to judge. Well for me anyway. By the 3rd misstep, I could identify them in the pic on ESA.

I get the heeby jeebies just thinking about that man size hand gripping my dick
:(

What's the trigger here?

Did you book what you thought was a woman and found a snake in the pants instead?

JP69

I started a thread on the Gold member forum when people can ask about the code status of a wg and the community can respond.

I have been fortunate that it has only happened to me once and that also happened to be my first Asian experience. Luckily I cancelled the booking before things went further. At the time I dis not know about ladyboys shemales etc. when the "lady" came into the room, I remember thinking to myself "damn, that's a big bitch!", I then started noticing a lot of cosmetic surgery had been done to her face, I remember her having really large hands and that got me thinking "my what big hands you have...". I knew something was off but I was not 100% sure, so I thought I would wait until she took her clothes off and check if she had a dick or a pussy. Her breasts were perfectly round but hard as stone. She displayed a bit of nervousness as if trying to conceal something. So she started giving me head and then took of her panties and went straight into doggystyle position not giving me enough time to inspect her things. I asked her if she would turn over and she refused. At this point I knew she was definitely trying to conceal something. I immediately got up and left and told the receptionist that they need to state in the adverts if the person is transgendered. Things escalated a bit and then I left.

There was a strip club in Johannesburg (I think it eventually closed its doors). The easiest way to suss out the postop and preop shemales was to watch who got on the pole to dance. Those that never did, were shemales.

It is very hard to fool your subconscious, it sees every subtle detail. So you end up getting that "uncanny" effect when you see them.

I agree 100%. I don't care what the cry babies of this world thinks, but if I want to be with a woman it means an actual woman and not a man who chopped off his wiener pretending to be a woman. Stop this nonsense of how people identify, seriously it's ridiculous and something you can't just randomly choose

Wow, what a shit choice I made then @Curious878

I of course love choosing a world where there would be bigotry and hatred, possible hate crimes, violence, corrective rape (because the LGBTQ community is so disgusting that of course people would want to force themselves on those they find repulsive), slander and slurs.

Love this choice for me ;)

None of us choose a life more difficult.

We choose freedom by being ourselves. Instead of the bandage of being someone we're not and we are fully aware that that comes at a price.

Perhaps we should start our own thread Code: 4 Bigots

I'm not one who entertains drama or slurs.

But if you don't like something or don't agree with something, just leave it alone.

Comments like these cause serious mental health issues and are part of the reason a lot of people in our community take their own lives.

On 2023-01-13 10:48:44 RogueRogue said:
Hey there ESA!

So over many years, I have enjoyed massages and GFE's -from budget punts to outrageous over charges. A very wide variety of lovely SP's.

Over the past year or so, I get triggered so badly that I simply close ESA.co.za. I feel nauseous to my core. What can the reason be???

*Lady Boys, Post-op ladies etc.*

Don't get me wrong, if a person like Leila B (many years on here) flashes in-front of me I don't mind at all. She does her thing and is honest about it. And, if I am honest, she has breath-taking beauty.

But JFC, girls that used to be boys, pretending and lying about it is my worst!

Disclaimer: yes I have inadvertently seen a few of these persons. Not my greatest memories....

Comments?

This sounds like a YOU problem. I've never been triggered by ESA lol. Understand, this is a big world full of all sorts of wonder.
If something doesn't suit you, scroll on by. If you're unsure of the person, ask.