So this is a new handle but been on this platform since 2006. Started my online journey on the blue platform. Before then the start and citizen, classifieds were the first port of call. And when feeling adventurous in my younger days surfing the streets of Rosebank and sandton cbd used to be fun.

Back then it was a hit or miss we didn't have reviews from the likes of Shadowfox and the other young ledgends.

Since last week I've been chasing that dragon again and it seems to be hiding or maybe the magic is just gone.

I don't know if any of you fellow brothers can relate. No matter how many visits you make. It's just not that exciting.

Any advice gents or is it time for an old man to retire

Here's a thought.
Perhaps the monotomy of consistent acceptable levels of service has become boring

I quote an article on the well researched phycology of addiction

Reward uncertainty plays a crucial role in gambling's attraction.

Dopamine, the neurotransmitter the brain releases during enjoyable activities such as eating, sex and drugs, is also released during situations where the reward is uncertain. In fact dopamine release increases particularly during the moments leading up to a potential reward. This anticipation effect might explain why dopamine release parallels an individual's levels

You haven't been getting your fix in a long time.
How do we fix that?

Hey Ego, true words. Then there are these scammers and fake cops that soil the experience even more! But still just looking for that special one that that could become a regular.

On 2022-12-06 07:57:54 ( Aunty ) Sage said:
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Dopamine, the neurotransmitter the brain releases during enjoyable activities such as eating, sex and drugs, is also released during situations where the reward is uncertain. In fact dopamine release increases particularly during the moments leading up to a potential reward. This anticipation effect might explain why dopamine release parallels an individual's levels

You haven't been getting your fix in a long time.
How do we fix that?

Dopamine is a big ropic right now, I see tons of posts everywhere. Majority relating to fapping or what we know as masturbation

On 2022-12-06 07:47:41 Ego8282 said:
So this is a new handle but been on this platform since 2006. Started my online journey on the blue platform. Before then the start and citizen, classifieds were the first port of call. And when feeling adventurous in my younger days surfing the streets of Rosebank and sandton cbd used to be fun.

Back then it was a hit or miss we didn't have reviews from the likes of Shadowfox and the other young ledgends.

Since last week I've been chasing that dragon again and it seems to be hiding or maybe the magic is just gone.

I don't know if any of you fellow brothers can relate. No matter how many visits you make. It's just not that exciting.

Any advice gents or is it time for an old man to retire

I've been saying this. It just isn't what it used to be. Used to be a real luxury and a treat. Easy peasy.

Also, with the proliferation of online and hookup culture, it's much easier to find a chick that actually likes you to hookup with and it's always very exciting because the game is exciting and usually no rules, no time limits, and often no umbrella either. Pay per play used to be the only option for most so all the excitement sat there but with alternatives, it becomes less appetizing.

JP69

You'll have to decide for yourself if it's really time to retire but I've been asking the same question for the last year or so. Seems pointless to push it if you're not keen anymore.
For some personal reasons as well, I've also lost interest in a lot of things, sex included, but what certainly doesn't help is the lacklustre bookings that I kept finding. Where the lady would do everything with her eyes closed and be completely silent throughout the session. Plus the closed mouth kissing is a turn off. Which together really makes me feel bad for being there, the total opposite of what I was looking for.
And then you keep asking yourself why you bothered wasting what little is left of your punting budget.
There are a few ladies I would like to have met before retiring, but as things are currently, that isn't an option.

Either way good luck to you

The pangs of nostalgia for the good old days become stronger when the need for coital gratification seems to elude one yet, has become easier due to over supply. Butts tits and thighs of all size shape and form. And the "mechanical scripted professional" sort of share. A demand for scripted, categorised, itemized and priced...even a kiss or so-called GFE is discussed.

A rare share be the one of mystery, difference and spontaneity...but mostly, looking in on the review system for courage to visit or find that "something" .

That "leaning in" and asking of others if it is a worthy visit, forgetting personal shares are exactly that and do not guarantee the same level of satisfaction. It is simply a tick that it may be worthy of a consideration.


I say...like a good relationship that is waning for, all things know to wane ... good or bad..don't chase it and begin to feel totally beat and resentful and distrustful that that unicorn does exist.


Maybe walk away for a while....let that niggle, that itch burn, desirous of a cockworship and kiss most sincere... a lovers welcome that turns ur socks inside out...be the drive to look in again and give it all u have....no preconceived ideas, no expectations....no reading toooooo much for information overshare can also be the firat step to a spoil and once again a hankering of bygone days of debauchery and fuckery.
Be hungry . Really hungry and come back and devour!


My take on this and many things that come too easy at any price

RB.

I myself started considering to hang up my punting shoes.

You have that one amazing punt that you always refer back to in your mind, that lady is retired now, so you keep looking for the one to fulfill that need. Unfortunately the ladies you visit just never get it right, although amazing in what they do.

I know I have been searching for a long time and end up being satisfied but disappointed every time. I just don't feel it's worth the effort any more

I hear the OP and share his sentiment entirely. The problem here is service. It is just not what it used to be. Years back I could phone an advertiser from the classifieds in a news paper and get pretty decent service. One of the best I have had was when I used my credit card over the phone and ordered take-out. Fuck it, I will never forget that night. Lately, WG's bar a select few which I can count on my one hand, are as boring as shit. Strangely enough, head overseas and you will be treated like the last man on earth. For 2 days and nights straight I was treated like a king and had to literally rub some soothing ointment on my dick and wrap it up after my stay. My dick was literally fucked and sucked raw. My boots are hanging already. I only shine them up when I know that a certain lady is visiting my neck of the woods. Then it's game time.

I'll retire when I'm dead.