Hi ladies,

Without judgement fron the community, what are the expectations around international travel? I understand that you are forfeiting the chance to earn your normal income, but what are your realistic expectations for a week of fully paid for international travel? Looking forward to comments from both WG and Punters that have been down this road before. Feel free to send me a DM if you prefer.

It will depend on many factors.
The more attractive the destination (from her perspective) the lower the fee expectations. Also what is the plan that side?. I know of a lady that was excited to go to Greece but by day the guy was working and without budget or street skills abroad she was stuck in the hotel. By night he wanted undevided attention. Needless to say she lost money and still did not see Greece.
On the other hand if you know the lady and you are good company and it will be a super tourist experience, she may see value in the experience you will not need to compensate for in cash.
Be very clear in your offering.
Hope it helps

Well I never have a problem because we go site seeing day time and wine and dine together. If it is for business trip, I ask the lady to land after my meeting days. It is also nice to visit a new country together with someone rather than being alone, like my virgin visit to Bali this year.

I know of punters from countries like Zambia or Zimbabwe who struggle to fly ladies even if they have the financial muscles. From my side, even if it is Tanzania, or Kenya I never get bored and I like sight seeing and have different experience in cities or wildlife.

You can pm me if you want.

On 2022-08-06 18:54:13 JackFrost said:
Hi ladies,

Without judgement fron the community, what are the expectations around international travel? I understand that you are forfeiting the chance to earn your normal income, but what are your realistic expectations for a week of fully paid for international travel? Looking forward to comments from both WG and Punters that have been down this road before. Feel free to send me a DM if you prefer.

you got PM

It is a pity that a thread like this has to go all cloak and dagger for fear of being attacked or ridiculed.

I would have loved to read the many suggestions, constructive criticisms and I know for a fact would have taken much into thought for future invites to international destinations.

Things are so dynamic these days and ever changing. No harm in reading even if it may not be suitable to my ways and practices.

Hopefully more will be shared publicly?

RB.

I find it to be a minefield to be honest. I have paid R10k upwards depending on the trip duration and destination. But that is all inclusive. A few things:

- Depending on the country that I am visiting I weigh up their local talent vs what we have in SA.
- I usually offer a flat fee some ladies are happy some aren't but if I am paying for flights, hotel food etc that is still an expense and I think about that when making an offer. That can easily run into R15k upwards.
- I always ensure that as part of the package they are able to have touristy things to do (spa, day trip etc) when I am busy, or just in general. I also value my alone time. Again that is an expense that I think about when making an offer. That's probably another R5k to R10k depending on the country
- Always have a booking with the lady in question to understand compatibility, most horrid situation I had was with a WG who refused to honour her side.
- Always ensure that they feel safe at all times during the trip, give them their own local country sim so they can contact me or the hotel if they are stuck somewhere, have a validation protocol in place so they know where they are going and its legit.
- Never fly together!

My 2c, off the bat expenses could cost you R20k to R25k without blinking. Add the lady's rate and you can see what an expensive exercise this can be so it is essential that chemistry with the lady is important.

Basically do everything you would do if you you were invited on a trip to make them feel at ease.

Sound advice.
The never " fly together" part had me pondering, totally makes sense.

Have not been everywhere, but I have been around the block. After 15 years of travel, I have always been able to get local talent quite easily. From the dating apps to the escort sites, it's just as easy as ESA here in South Africa. Taking someone from SA, to me, just doesn't make any sense whatsoever. But that's me.....

Agreed, local talent is always my first port of call.

I think your flat fee is still generous, considering the lady will basically have a holiday at your expense. Definitely a good deal.