I had a virgin for breakfast this morning... And he f#@ckd me so good I felt like I was the virgin. Hehe

But he didn't come tho- he said he was unfit...
Quick question: How do u know if a guy(virgin or not) enjoyed himself if he did'nt cum?

You'll know if he re-books you.

To Cum is the destination .. the rest are foreplay which plenty of us enjoy to the fullest ;)

I am sure you have enjoyed yourself on occasion and didn't cum. Chances are good that your virgim has been wanking a lot. The pussy grip is not the same as the hand. Also the speed at which you ride him is nowhere near a the speed of a vigorous handjob. I am sure he'll be back. He has to get into a different way of doing things.
P.s the first time I had sex was very disappointing too. We had some everything except penetration and it was mind-blowing and then the deed was quite disappointing. It improved with time.

I often don't cum during sex. When I was in my 20s, I almost never did. I still, strangely, felt satisfied afterward and had my favourites.

I've cum and left frustrated before, so not everyone equates orgasms with satisfaction.

On 2022-03-27 14:31:47 Bella Pink said:
Quick question: How do u know if a guy(virgin or not) enjoyed himself if he did'nt cum?

Its easy - a guy will always tell you. If he says he enjoyed himself, believe him, don't go looking for hidden meanings - we are just not that complicated.

Cumming is a bonus for me not a requirement. I get more pleasure from going down on a beautiful woman than I do from climaxing. Being pegged or fucked by a shemale is WAY more intense than an orgasm. So don't worry so much about the actual ejaculation it just isn't that important.

On 2022-03-27 16:02:40 Bbw Nadia said:
I am sure you have enjoyed yourself on occasion and didn't cum. Chances are good that your virgim has been wanking a lot. The pussy grip is not the same as the hand. Also the speed at which you ride him is nowhere near a the speed of a vigorous handjob. I am sure he'll be back. He has to get into a different way of doing things.
P.s the first time I had sex was very disappointing too. We had some everything except penetration and it was mind-blowing and then the deed was quite disappointing. It improved with time.

My 1st tym was also disappointing to say the least... Nd yeah maybe he's used to wanking, I never thought about that. Anyway I hope he enjoyed it as much as I did, I guess the only way to tell if he did, like Forsyth said, is if he rebooks.

On 2022-03-27 19:51:05 oraljim said:

Its easy - a guy will always tell you. If he says he enjoyed himself, believe him, don't go looking for hidden meanings - we are just not that complicated.

Cumming is a bonus for me not a requirement. I get more pleasure from going down on a beautiful woman than I do from climaxing. Being pegged or fucked by a shemale is WAY more intense than an orgasm. So don't worry so much about the actual ejaculation it just isn't that important.

Okay I guess I'll have to believe him then... just hope he wasn't lying to me... The day I eventually try a shemale I hope its also intense :)

On 2022-03-27 19:46:01 ghostwrita said:
I often don't cum during sex. When I was in my 20s, I almost never did. I still, strangely, felt satisfied afterward and had my favourites.

I've cum and left frustrated before, so not everyone equates orgasms with satisfaction.

I'm also one of those ppl that rarely cum... but I still get satisfied even without cumming... but it takes a really good, long steamy session for me to be satisfied...

And wen I DO cum from penetration only, I get shocked, like wtf happened.

On 2022-03-27 19:46:01 ghostwrita said:
I often don't cum during sex. When I was in my 20s, I almost never did. I still, strangely, felt satisfied afterward and had my favourites.

I've cum and left frustrated before, so not everyone equates orgasms with satisfaction.

I often cum during sex but when I don't cum I feel great. Those are my best. Sweaty bodies, reeling minds, trembling flesh. I leave satisfied as can be.

On the other hand if I cum quickly I wish I had wanked and saved the time and probably money.