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Positives and negatives
Posted: 2021-07-07 09:06:12
Hello all wanted to ask the ladies what are the biggest positives and negatives (besides covid) about the this industry?
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Re: Positives and negatives
Posted: 2021-07-07 09:17:21
HIV
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Re: Positives and negatives
Posted: 2021-07-07 09:34:05
Edited: 2021-07-07 09:37:42
Edited: 2021-07-07 09:37:42
POSITIVES:
* I almost always know "someone"...a lawyer, a plumber, an accountant blablabla...you name it
* I almost never buy myself chocolates and half the times, wine too.
* There is always gifts and someone who does something "hearty" for you.
*Sometimes, we just come across people who become our really good friends. I have two from the previous dimension and they're the best mentors I've ever had. we hardly discuss anything sexual.
* Everyday, your mind grows based on dealing with lots of different people and situatioms regularly...or you shut down-it's a choice.
* You're forced to think strategically like any other business.
* You're forced to maintain or advance your physical appearance.
* Guys keep telling you nice things.
NEGATIVES:
* There's too many-EVERYDAY, but not big enough an issue for me. No shows, unpleasant threads and comments on the forum, bullying punters or SP's, scammers, dirty clients ( haven't had one in ages-NOT an INVITATION!!!), can't date, can't exactly keep/have friends either...one would have to keep their old ones at a distance or come clean- good luck with that. Sometimes, you just meet some really strange people who talk, act and behave like you got one less brain than they do.
* I almost always know "someone"...a lawyer, a plumber, an accountant blablabla...you name it
* I almost never buy myself chocolates and half the times, wine too.
* There is always gifts and someone who does something "hearty" for you.
*Sometimes, we just come across people who become our really good friends. I have two from the previous dimension and they're the best mentors I've ever had. we hardly discuss anything sexual.
* Everyday, your mind grows based on dealing with lots of different people and situatioms regularly...or you shut down-it's a choice.
* You're forced to think strategically like any other business.
* You're forced to maintain or advance your physical appearance.
* Guys keep telling you nice things.
NEGATIVES:
* There's too many-EVERYDAY, but not big enough an issue for me. No shows, unpleasant threads and comments on the forum, bullying punters or SP's, scammers, dirty clients ( haven't had one in ages-NOT an INVITATION!!!), can't date, can't exactly keep/have friends either...one would have to keep their old ones at a distance or come clean- good luck with that. Sometimes, you just meet some really strange people who talk, act and behave like you got one less brain than they do.
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Re: Positives and negatives
Posted: 2021-07-07 11:07:01
One BIG positive is that my bullshit detection skills are accurate to just short of 100%. My people reading skills are SHARP!!! And it's also a negative cos I don't always want to know someone is bullshitting.
A big negative is that I always expect the worst from people. In this game I find expecting the worst leaves me less angry and disappointed when guys drop me.... A coping mechanism of sorts.
A big negative is that I always expect the worst from people. In this game I find expecting the worst leaves me less angry and disappointed when guys drop me.... A coping mechanism of sorts.
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Re: Positives and negatives
Posted: 2021-07-07 11:21:38
Positive is definitely, being your own boss and taking your business anywhere.
Negative is living a double life. None of my friends, nor family knows about my "other work".
Otherwise the normal post and neg's you girls mentioned above already.
Xxx
Negative is living a double life. None of my friends, nor family knows about my "other work".
Otherwise the normal post and neg's you girls mentioned above already.
Xxx
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Re: Positives and negatives
Posted: 2021-07-07 13:17:45
On 2021-07-07 09:17:21 AnthonyEdwards said:
HIV
Pretty sure PRep and condoms help reduce that factor
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Re: Positives and negatives
Posted: 2021-07-07 13:54:59
Positives...they get multiple cocks. Paid to cum. Fuck all day.
Negatives...they get multiple cocks. Paid to cum. Fuck all day.
Negatives...they get multiple cocks. Paid to cum. Fuck all day.
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Re: Positives and negatives
Posted: 2021-07-07 14:05:04
Spot on!
JP69
On 2021-07-07 13:54:59 SuperFuck said:
Positives...they get multiple cocks. Paid to cum. Fuck all day.
Negatives...they get multiple cocks. Paid to cum. Fuck all day.
Spot on!
JP69
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Re: Positives and negatives
Posted: 2021-07-07 14:18:29
Lope Lux have the positives SPOT ON. Especially about always knowing "someone". I can get better prices on certain things when adding a bit of a barter to the deal.
As for the negatives, well like she mentioned, one can't date or have a partner. As much as I would love to be in a relationship, it is not fair on the guy/girl.
Another negative for me is, I love working in hospitality and the challenges that it brings. I would go back to a normal job in a heartbeat. If only there was work......
As for the negatives, well like she mentioned, one can't date or have a partner. As much as I would love to be in a relationship, it is not fair on the guy/girl.
Another negative for me is, I love working in hospitality and the challenges that it brings. I would go back to a normal job in a heartbeat. If only there was work......
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Re: Positives and negatives
Posted: 2021-07-07 15:00:56
The previous Pres, now soon to be Jailbird suggest a shower would do the job to prevent you from HIV.
Pity he has no solution for CR17 and C19
On 2021-07-07 13:17:45 ThelastRonin said:
On 2021-07-07 09:17:21 AnthonyEdwards said: HIV
Pretty sure PRep and condoms help reduce that factor
The previous Pres, now soon to be Jailbird suggest a shower would do the job to prevent you from HIV.
Pity he has no solution for CR17 and C19
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