Just wanted to say that i wish that Esa could remove the "face" and "body" part wen making a review bcoz beauty is in the eye of the beholder...

I really dnt like that somebody else has the "power" to determine how bad/good-looking i am and they can rate me on a scale of 5 and broadcast to other ppl about how they feel I shud be rated.

Who are u to judge me????? I'm beautiful! Even if I look like a 1 to u, I'm still beautiful... I dnt need validation from u or anyone else, I know I'm beautiful!... U can take ur rating nd shove it where the sun dont shine, I know I'm beautiful! Even if u give me a 1, I still love wat I see wen I look in the mirror... that goes for my body aswel. U might not like that I have a potbelly and a small butt, I'm okay with how I look, wat u think about how I look doesn't matter to me...

Let's summarize, if u dnt like how I look just know that ur opinion doesn't matter to me, u will still wake up looking the same way u did yesterday, it doesn't change how I feel about myself, its not gonna bring world peace and it certainly is NOT gonna add anything to ur bank acc.

Thank u

Babe, this is a sex site, not the Oprah Winfrey show. You're going to be judged on your look.

It is optional which is why I never ever fill it in, what I think is beautiful others maybe don't and what they think is beautiful I maybe don't.

All people are beautiful to someone in their own way and we should all be rated a 5*

Also I will never judge on your look, I will always judge you on your service

Jake XXX

...Yes, thats what its all about Grace...Athena got it spot-on.

We not looking for a pen-pal.Its great that you have a positive self-image...but your milkshake will bring all the boys to the yard....

You have to grow a thick skin in this game. It can be cruel at times.
I have had guys say I look better than they expected and others have said I look like a troll. I console myself that its never been the good looking guys who said Thanks but no thanks. Its always been the troll mannetjies. There used to be a member who criticized me quite harshly to other guys via pms. If he only knew the ladies at the venue I worked at ran away when he arrived. Funny, I went into private practice and he sought me out and visited frequently despite badmouthing my looks and I acted like I didn't know what he had said.
So dont take criticism too personally.

On 2021-05-20 10:25:20 Athena said:
Babe, this is a sex site, not the Oprah Winfrey show. You're going to be judged on your look.

Just bcoz its a sex site doesnt mean if u think im a 3 im really a 3

Just like how u allowed to say how u feel about how i look, so do I.

And we need a world were ladies stick together, esp on a site like this were bullying is happening left ryt and centre..... Not ladies that know wat u going thru but wud rather want to shine on ur downfall! If u dnt agree with me theres no shame in keeping quiet... Unless u felt offended by wat im saying, then i totally get u.

And this post is me saying that u can rate me however u wanna rate me, but just know that to me it doesnt really matter if u dnt like how i look bcoz i like how i look and thats wat matters!!!

On 2021-05-20 10:49:11 Bbw Nadia said:
You have to grow a thick skin in this game. It can be cruel at times.
I have had guys say I look better than they expected and others have said I look like a troll. I console myself that its never been the good looking guys who said Thanks but no thanks. Its always been the troll mannetjies. There used to be a member who criticized me quite harshly to other guys via pms. If he only knew the ladies at the venue I worked at ran away when he arrived. Funny, I went into private practice and he sought me out and visited frequently despite badmouthing my looks and I acted like I didn't know what he had said.
So dont take criticism too personally.

Agreed to survive on this Plat forum you need to be think skinned. I think colored girls are lucky as we have a reputation for being thick skinned lol.

People will always judge you both here and in a mundane world. The reality is you can't and won't please everyone and you definitely will not be everyone's flavor of the day. You just have to be OK that. Value those who value you and the rest is history.

Plenty guys tell me my pictures don't do me justice yet there are those who never met me what claim I am fat man lol. I can guarantee you that those people themselves are no oil paintings besides what does it matter you know he might not come back go spend his bucks I promise you once you have spent his money you will feel better about it because at least he paid your ugly face(just jokes) for a service he probably doesn't get unless he pays for it.

On 2021-05-20 10:29:58 Jakeburns78 said:

All people are beautiful to someone in their own way and we should all be rated a 5*

Thank u... I really love this!!!

On 2021-05-20 10:49:11 Bbw Nadia said:
You have to grow a thick skin in this game. It can be cruel at times.

So true... Where is the love??????

On 2021-05-20 11:01:31 Melina - The Edging Expert said:


People will always judge you both here and in a mundane world. The reality is you can't and won't please everyone and you definitely will not be everyone's flavor of the day. You just have to be OK that. Value those who value you and the rest is history.

I totally agree with this! Yes u have to have a thick skin