Been gone just 2 days and couldn't stay away. Wtf! This shit is insane. How does 1 get out????
Worst still I came back with gold membership. Eish....

Well it was a reflective 2 days, learnt a bit about myself and had a chat with a WG/friend too. Big eye opener and tiny (alcohol induced) epiphanies were had.

problem 1: I didn't know what would happen if/when I finally tied da matrimonial knot...then what? Still punt? Carry on this way or find life's other pleasures? Where does this road lead?

problem 2: I wasn't having any healthy relationships lately. All my recent gf's were the paid for kind by the hour.

problem 3: I actually started liking in 'real terms' 1 of my SP's & that was outside of the paid for hour.

Problem 4: found it hard to differentiate between the real world from the punting lifestyle.

My (self concocted) Solutions
1. Find a wife to join in or who condones punting. Or get better at keeping secrets. Lol. I doubt I'll punt till my dying days but I'm not ready to quit yet. There's a lot of life's pleasure I've yet to discover in the punting world let alone anywhere else. Baby steps I guess. Drastic decisions bring on drastic regrets. (Or drastic rewards but im calculated& not much if a risk taker- yes as a punter, i see the irony)
Take things as they come. Punt responsibly (ESA ladies only), don't stink & punt (good hygiene goes a long way- both ways ladies) and don't punt near pensioners.(their looks really can kill- sometimes from heart attacks, sometimes just old age)

2. Time & place. And right now I enjoy promiscuous company. I'll gladly pay if its a good punt & satisfies a craving/fetish/curiosity not otherwise achievable with 'real world' ladies. Perhaps it's my own fault as to why I prefer to lean towards the unhealthy relationships with WG's be it for an hour at a time but I've been happy so far. Why try and fix it if it ain't broke. (I say unhealthy as there is nothing really meaningful or any long term benefit from such relationships). I should eat my own words here as I previously posted that as punters are here for sex or some form thereof mainly, the added benefit a WG throws in like a proper gfe is just party to the transaction and simply just what the client wants. It's all purely business. But i get fooled everytime & dont see it that way. So if I pay for it and the full service was good, i leave satisfied or get more than i paid for...why shouldn't I be a repeat customer? Even if its unhealthy?

3. This one I had to learn the really hard way. All I'll say further is that I figured out I'm no more special to a WG than the next R600-R1200 that walks thru her door, unless maybe he comes bearing gifts or books an all night. Then he's more special lol. WG's have to deal with lots of crap us punters throw at them and some of them actually take it. They are our SP's, Gfe's Pse's friendly face, willing fornicatress, sexy therapist, & multitalented illusionists that always say the right things with a smile but we (me) forget that it's all just part of their charms and arsenal, their on the job skills, which make the good ones great.
That being said: Fool me once, shame on me. Fool me twice & I hope the next booking is free.

4. It's not exactly a fine line between the 2 unless u get caught up in it. Punting is a hobby, not an addiction. If u mix up the 2, just make sure to keep a sharp eye on ur bank balance. And it's just like Vegas. What happens in the punting worlds stays there. Theres glitz, glam and bejeweled vajay-jays but it's all just for show and none of it is real. It's an escape. A world away from the real world. Take nothing (but cash) into it and nothing out from it. (Especially not herpes coz that shit ain't returnable) lol.

Well there's my whole 2cents with some dry humor in-between. Needed an avenue to think out in words and twitter only allows 150 words while Facebook is for pedophiles so ESA will do. It'll do just fine.

Good being back. Doesn't feel like I left. (Before u comment, yes 2 days does count esp since I deleted my old account)

Well all I can say is Welcome back hehehehe.

Mwah

Welcome back Biker

These words were spoken so true and relevant to about all of us! Liked it.

LOL must say I read your post and the thought dawned on me "damn that's me talking"!!! Lost my wife 28 months ago due to cancer and started punting about 18 moths ago. Solution 2 in the post is so spot-on its scary! My vice is without doubt becoming a way of life and the lack of responsibility and accountability [health aspects excluded] works for me. I actually have not punted in SA for various reasons but my six-weekly trips to the UK keeps me "alive"! Those East European women just drive me "crazy" and my recent encounter www.sunnyescorts.com/albums/sky/ was something to behold.

Welcome back...

An elder once told me never to quit...quitting is for losers...see ..so I have no choice..I have to remain a punter for all my life....

This is so true, I am also finding that I am not connecting with folks in the real world lately!

Maybe this is why I can't relate to any of the soccer moms, i always just wanna fuck their husbands! Being a WG/punter becomes a way of life.

@ kraatos. Thanx bud. Looks like I'm in for da long haul now. Unless someone finds the fat lady with all the cows.
@bendover. Lol the excuses we use ....... Haha
@ andi, cawi, 9inch. Guess we all in the same boat. And that ship had long sailed. Lol
@ Gen, true that. Certainly a way of life
Finally @ storm. I was hoping for a big welcome back parade. 100's of naked ladies adorning my front yard. Condom balloons fill the air, rivers of live flow thru the streets....

Lol thnx guys. Stay naughty

Hi Biker, I was away for a few days. Missed you leaving.... But so glad you back, ESA wouldn't be the same without you. And I am glad to be back. Hope to see you soon.

Mwah

Arz