Shit just got real.

We need to help each other we need to be good people.

I'm all for helping the person next to me and get alot of ladies on this site will be going through the toughest times of their lives during this period so I urge you guys to come to the party and help out.

Food and everyday necessary items is what certain ladies may need as other may be in a suitable to see themselves through this.

I would be willing to donate and assist with support however how would one differentiate between who needs it most and who may just be looking for a freebie?

Also would I be compensated with time back once this all has blown over? Is it possible to be trusting these days?

I want to do the most for my fellow human but would that person do the most for me?

@ bals
Rather not do anything, because you don't want to help. You only pretend to help.

You don't help somebody for what he can do for you in return. You help someone because he is in need of assistance.

Kooni 100% spot on, hit the nail on the head. I hope this guy gets screwed over in his poor attempt to barter

So, I copied my comment from another thread....

@bals ,

Give food vouchers, as you hopefully give to either your church, schools, community around you! If cash is such an issue, then get one of her account details, and pay any bill that you can affort! Whatever you it may be! Just help someone out! Why is it so f#cking hard to help? No wonder the world are in the state it is! Because people can't look PASS the "WHAT IS IT IN FOR ME IF I'M HELPING YOU???" F#&K!!!!!!!

On 2020-03-22 22:18:37 Kooni said:
@ bals
Rather not do anything, because you don't want to help. You only pretend to help.

You don't help somebody for what he can do for you in return. You help someone because he is in need of assistance.

I wanted to say the same thing. Thanks for putting it so beautifully.

On 2020-03-22 22:46:52 Liza said:
So, I copied my comment from another thread....

@bals ,

Give food vouchers, as you hopefully give to either your church, schools, community around you! If cash is such an issue, then get one of her account details, and pay any bill that you can affort! Whatever you it may be! Just help someone out! Why is it so f#cking hard to help? No wonder the world are in the state it is! Because people can't look PASS the "WHAT IS IT IN FOR ME IF I'M HELPING YOU???" F#&K!!!!!!!

I agree 100%

Makes me so mad. Why do you need something in return if you are offering to help someone.

On 2020-03-22 22:54:04 Carli said:
On 2020-03-22 22:18:37 Kooni said: @ bals
Rather not do anything, because you don't want to help. You only pretend to help.

You don't help somebody for what he can do for you in return. You help someone because he is in need of assistance






I wanted to say the same thing. Thanks for putting it so beautifully.

Rich coming from you

You guys are misinterpreting what I am saying or perhaps I said it wrong

I meant I am in a position to help others right now but just like alot of people I own my own small business and do not know where I will be a couple months down the line, I was not asking for time or demanding anything so relax my question is should this all blow over and punting goes back to usual would I receive the same sort of sympathy?

On 2020-03-23 11:44:26 bals said:
You guys are misinterpreting what I am saying or perhaps I said it wrong

I meant I am in a position to help others right now but just like alot of people I own my own small business and do not know where I will be a couple months down the line, I was not asking for time or demanding anything so relax my question is should this all blow over and punting goes back to usual would I receive the same sort of sympathy?

Well lets test it. Liza please tell us how many punters you granted free bookings or extended payment plans when they experienced cash flow problems in BC(before Corona) days?

On 2020-03-23 11:56:58 undercoverpta said:
On 2020-03-23 11:44:26 bals said: You guys are misinterpreting what I am saying or perhaps I said it wrong

I meant I am in a position to help others right now but just like alot of people I own my own small business and do not know where I will be a couple months down the line, I was not asking for time or demanding anything so relax my question is should this all blow over and punting goes back to usual would I receive the same sort of sympathy?

Well lets test it. Liza please tell us how many punters you granted free bookings or extended payment plans when they experienced cash flow problems in BC(before Corona) days?

Great to see humour in these times