On 2022-06-15 01:53:13 786dadzn said:
Just remember i an NOT famous lol

You ARE famous 786DADZN ... on Planet Purple :p

***QUESTION*** #3 (Asked during session) ... "You must meet some interesting people - have you ever been with anyone famous?"
***MY ANSWER*** ... "A good hooker is like a magician - she never reveals her tricks." (I read that somewhere) I am an xxxcellent magician ... I can pull a bunny rabbit out of a hat - then I can stuff that bunny ... right back into that hat. My lips are sealed.

Behind the facade of "celebrity" is a man, like any other, with the same needs and desires all men have. They are deserving of the same discretion, privacy and anonymity as anyone else. Not gonna brag, but I can count the internationally recognised people I have 'entertained" on one hand (London is crawling with horny, well-known,T-girl loving men). I can count our local (RSA) "celebs" on three hands (Sportsmen ... Horny FotherMuckers). I suppose I am bragging. Pathetic, I know ;-)

If my figures seem exaggerated, here's an FYI ... Trans people are estimated to account for 0.1% of the population. Of that percentage, some are transwomen. Of the transwomen, only some are sexworkers and of those sexworkers, only some are deemed "suitable" escorts for the tastes of "famous folk". Interestingly, of all the well-known people I tangled with, only one actually (sincerely) complimented me. I (of course) went out of my way to stroke their egos and charm them (that's what we pros do). "Unknowns" over "well-knowns" anytime, anyday. I have to say that, right? Hahaha. I am being totally honest though - much less energy expended on ego stroking with "unknowns", so all that energy can be spent on other strokes ;-)

PS: These experiences were mostly pre-pandemic. Pre-pandemonium seems like another lifetime (sniff-sniff). Excuse me while I go slit my wrists ...

***MYTH*** ... There are not many attractive transwomen/shemales hailing from South Africa.
***RESPONSE*** ... Not true - at all. NEWSFLASH!!! Not all transwomen are escorts. Most of the transwomen I am acquainted with have never considered entering the sex industry. Some of my trans counterparts are hot AF. So there goes that misconception out the window.

Here's a little snippet from my day-to-day life: I was boarding a British Airways (domestic) flight. As I entered the aircraft, I was greeted by an attractive flight attendant, who was the purser on that flight (A purser is the person in charge of the cabin crew). I spotted that she was trans. She did not "spot" me - yet. We trans folk can "clock" each other easily. When she came around to our aisle and asked, "What would you like to drink Mam", I gave her "the look". Nothing sinister, just an "I see you/looking good girl" acknowledgement. That's when she "clocked" me.

When I disembarked, I went out of my way to give her my warmest, broadest smile and I thanked her for a comfortable flight (I hate flying).

See? Not all transwomen are escorts. And there are quite a few "passable" attractive transwomen born here in Sunny South Africa.

PS: I might offer some more glimpses into my (pvt) day-to-day life in future ... I might ... teeny, tiny baby steps ...

#LivingMyBestLife xxx

"If you are always trying to be normal, you will never know how amazing you can be." (Maya Angelou)


***QUESTION*** #4 (Common question asked on "Adult" forums) ... "Is sex with a shemale gay or straight?"
***MY ANSWER*** ... TBH, does anyone really care? Should your feet be positioned towards the tap end of the bath or should your head be at the tap end when bathing? Is the earth flat or is the earth round? Why the F should we even care? What difference would the answers to these questions make, either way, in your life or mine? Why wonder about something when you can actually experience it for yourself??? Some people like to say YOLO (you only live once.) I beg to differ - you only die once - you live every day. Don't waste your precious time wondering.

Here's a badass video describing the types attracted to transwomen/shemales ... m.youtube.com/watch



"Unfortunately, no one can be told what The Matrix is. You have to see it for yourself." (Morpheus - The Matrix)

*Interesting fact* ... The Wachowski sisters (Lana and Lily) who wrote and directed THE MATRIX are both transwomen


#LiveAndLetLive xxx

Time for Mr H to join the thread :-)

Empress of The Dark Side, you're always a pleasure to talk to, very informed, have your own opinion and style, your way with words and puns is highly amusing and non-cliched, not to mention your physical beauty, elegance and carnal prowess. All this hiding a shy little girl who, in a certain situation, bursts out of the shell and becomes a tornado of uninhibited sensual pleasure.

The most common questions undoubtedly are "I like trans women, am I gay?", "I like being fucked in the arse, am I gay?" and "why am I attracted to trans women in the first place?".

The answers, no matter how complicated the non-indoctrinated make them seem, are actually pretty simple. Since sexuality is a spectrum, no singular sexual practice is global, I.e. common to all. Preferences is the word, what turns a particular person on. Coprophilia comes to mind and that, along with homosexuality, polysexuality, zoophilia and all other so called paraphilias was listed in the psychiatric books until only a few decades ago. Some are still listed, though as time goes by the list is getting shorter and shorter. Appears that society decides what is a deviation and what is normal. Some paraphilias are considered severe psychiatric (and psychosocial) deviations by the vast majority of people on the planet, probably rightly so. Paedophilia comes to mind and my blood freezes when I think for a moment that one day it may be shrugged off as just another sexual fetish and stricken off the medical and law books.

The issue obviously is "is my (our) sexual fetish harming anyone"?

No. Back to the trans issue.

You are gay if you are attracted to a man. Trans women are not men. No matter how you argue genetics, what you see is what you get. Do you see a man? No. Then you are not gay.

Then why are you attracted to a woman with a cock? Why do you want to suck that cock and play with it and make love to it and have it buried deep in your arse, and why is the pleasure so intense? Simple. You are attracted to the beautiful woman that you see and you are self-identifying with your own cock. You like seeking new sources of pleasure. You'd rather have a live cock than a piece of silicone in your arse, at the same time enjoying the aesthetics and elegance of a beautiful woman. Etc etc. Are you bisexual? Yes, if you are attracted to people of two different genders, eg women and transgender women in this case. If you're attracted to dudes, then well, you are homosexual (using the medical name for same sex attraction on purpose, since gay is an age old word meaning "merry, jolly, cheerful" etc).

Additionally free and uninhibited sexual experimentation is a lot more common in the XY genome.

So, whatever rocks your boat - keep rocking it!

Leila B definitely rocks it.

Great post Leila.
Have seen you a few times in public. And I understand your hesitance.

On 2022-02-23 23:26:02 Leila B (shemale Seductress) said:
Hello My Fellow Seekers of Sensuality. I hope that you are all keeping safe and sexy during these tricky times.

Seeing as I share t*ts n bits on the daily, I thought I'd share some TitBits with you ... TitBits only an "insider" would know of ...

My posts have been infrequent, simply because I felt ever so slightly vulnerable, as I do display my face proudly, whilst most Purple Posters are faceless phantoms to me (I don't mean that in a bad way). BUT ... Thanks to good ol' Corona and face-masks, I can now be "anonymous" when out and about.


The other reason that makes me think twice about posting often is the surge in the "I really want to try it but I just need to get the courage" type calls my posts seem to encourage. To those callers, I would like to point out that making peoples' minds up for them is, sadly, not one of my many gifts and talents. Damn, I wish I could make your mind up for you - *KERCHING!* Having the ability to make peoples' minds up for them would be a superpower surely and it would probably get me recruited by the CIA, which would leave me with no spare time to enthusiastically escort my playmates to my Vegas. BTW ... What happens in (my) Vegas never happened *WINK-WINK*


All that being said, here is The Transfans Bible, courtesy of CONTRAPOINTS (aka Natalie Wynn). It's a bit long-ish, but it is brilliant, funny, informative and a must-see ... m.youtube.com/watch

On 2022-06-27 09:31:13 Lanavol said:
All this hiding a shy little girl who, in a certain situation, bursts out of the shell and becomes a tornado of uninhibited sensual pleasure.

"Shy little girl"? You ruining my street cred Mr.H ... Heehee. I am a typical Virgo (Virgos are shy creatures). Not a girly girl though. You'll never see me wearing pink. If ever you spot me wearing pink, it's either my doppelganger, or I've lost my mind ... LOL

I really like the "uninhibited, sensual tornado bursting out of shell" bit though. 10/10 (Virgo Women are Princesses in the streets - freaks between the sheets)

Love your thoughts.

Thanxxx

On 2022-02-23 23:26:02 Leila B (shemale Seductress) said:

My posts have been infrequent, simply because I felt ever so slightly vulnerable, as I do display my face proudly, whilst most Purple Posters are faceless phantoms to me (I don't mean that in a bad way). BUT ... Thanks to good ol' Corona and face-masks, I can now be "anonymous" when out and about.

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[QUOTE;3652922;amnesiawillis] Great post Leila.
Have seen you a few times in public. And I understand your hesitance.




Yikes!!!... AMNESIAWILLIS :)))))))

Apologies for derailing your fascinating thread @Leila B, but, are you ever gonna cum to Cape Town?

On 2022-06-27 21:04:30 Laidback007 said:
Apologies for derailing your fascinating thread @Leila B, but, are you ever gonna cum to Cape Town?

Yessir... LAIDBACK007 :-)

My visit to Durban is long overdue, so I will be heading East first ... Then I will be heading South to the Mother City. I will post travel dates as soon as firm arrangements have been made ... xxx