As an aside, I wish all married punters who say they love they wives can tell their wives that they punt. Im 99.999% certain that every wife will consider punting as cheating and an act of severe betrayal.

Gherkin you just been promoted to a cucumber and you now allowed to vote!

Firstly, i am happyly married for over 30 years, great sex life and try to convince to partake in some of my fantasies with no great success ... I respect her to much to inforce such fantasies.

Secondly, after 30 years i decided to make these fantasies come true by visiting some gorgeous ladies on ESA and after a couple of visits started to get attached to them.

In the beginning it felt like I was falling for these ladies .. we are only human after all ... but luckily got to my senses ... these relationships can become a disaster and i made a decision to rather move on before becoming too attached.

Currently i am addicted to this fantasy world that we created for ourselves ... hopefully i will get out of it before it is to late but this hornyness is a big bugger !!!

On 2017-04-19 13:24:46 daporra said:
Gherkin you just been promoted to a cucumber and you now allowed to vote!

Do you think gherkin is a suur komkommertjie?
Or a lady?
I know I say things that sometimes I shouldn't, but that's my view.
No one has to agree.
I won't shit where I eat... for that I've been to long in this industry.

Honestly keep your wives and GF/ BF and WG in separated sentences and don't mix them together....
PS unless you have a open minded wife!
None compares to the other.
Each and every one of these ladies full a gentleman needs or plays a role it doesn't matter how big or small.

I think that's what saved a lot of people ending up in a divorce court.
I for one can't live without the attention/ love of a partner .

So here's my answer... if you have got the perfect ( there's no such thing)partner that satisfy all your needs you don't have to be in a predicament where you have to choose between 2/3 ladies.

I'll rather keep one happy in a million ways then keep a million happy... it takes the same effort.

Ahh Meg so you saying Gherkin is a sourpoes!

I concur

Meg

You have got the know-how to keep a thousand happy in a thousand different ways. Why waste that knowledge and skills on one man that might try and be with a thousand ladies.

No one is perfect but some people are lucky enough to find there perfect match no matter how many faults that person may have.

@Meg, you missed my comment entirely. I concur that OBVIOUSLY wgs fill a void in all punters lives.

My question simply was what would the wives reactions be should they find out their husbands pay for sex in secret.

Maybe I shoud ask how many punters would be happy to find out that their wives have been paying for sex with several rent boys behind their backs. Sucking multiple dicks and tossing their salad?

Most probably won't be happy to find out that your wife is paying for sex ... can be a mother of all f@ckups if it does happen !!!

On 2017-04-19 14:34:58 yewrev said:
Meg

You have got the know-how to keep a thousand happy in a thousand different ways. Why waste that knowledge and skills on one man that might try and be with a thousand ladies.

No one is perfect but some people are lucky enough to find there perfect match no matter how many faults that person may have.

Honestly I can't say that the man I will see someday will do something like that.
Not all men are the same and you do get gentleman that give attention to THE ONE lady in his life.
If I do everything my BF wants .. like phone sex...sending naughty pics, being his lingerie model, a naughty lover, experiment all things, being open minded with me in his fantasies. And mine with him..exploring our bodies and ways... having 3 somes( not him punting alone), playing with toys, go the nudes camps, walking around naked if he likes?
Doing something to make me attractive to him, always look after Him and myself...
Being his best friend, listen to his needs and feelings and understanding him as a man...
All I ask is that he sees the effort I put in to make it work.
Why would anyone want to jump the fence?
You can only expect a 100% input if you willing to GIVE it 100%!

So true what you are saying Meg but if she is not so open minded as you wish her to be .. what then ... being faithfull for 30 years ... my fantasies got the better of me ... is is really so wrong ... lust is a bliksem !!!