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Posted: 2026-03-08 21:21:27

On 2026-03-06 10:00:41 KICKASS said:
I was once charged for jumping in a pool at one of the social never ever went back again.



I read about this incident. It was at warmbaths in the middle of summer and it was packed that day. Apparently the kids had to go for counceling after seeing a stark naked indian guy running naked towards the pool. I think the article mentioned he shouted KOWABANGA!!! as he jumped in.

Guys always check your surroundings.
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Posted: 2026-03-09 07:03:14

On 2026-03-06 10:00:41 KICKASS said:
I was once charged for jumping in a pool at one of the social never ever went back again.



Kick next social needs to be at scarlets place
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Posted: 2026-03-09 07:09:43

On 2026-03-05 08:30:49 BootySmasher2.0 said:
What is this thing of charging extra for everything these days? What happened to the purple world being a world where one can explore their fantasies? I call a girl working in waterkloof yesterday and I asked for her rates and I agree to them. She charges me R500 extra for Greek R800 for the hour. I told her I'd call her when I'm 15min away. I withdraw R1300 for our session. I then call her to tell her I'm 15min away and I asked if during the session she can masturbate in front of me. She then says I'll charge you extra for that saying it with a giggle. I know some of you will say I should have asked everything upfront, and I understand but something like this being an extra is ludicrous. I decided to go see another lady who didn't try to extort me.



I charge extra for Greek too however mastrabation is on the house ;)
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Posted: 2026-03-09 09:05:09

On 2026-03-09 07:03:14 Muff Marauder said:
On 2026-03-06 10:00:41 KICKASS said: I was once charged for jumping in a pool at one of the social never ever went back again.

Kick next social needs to be at scarlets place



Have they agreed to this buddy find out we getting closer to the time.
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Posted: 2026-03-09 09:14:51

No charging extra for CIM, COF and OWO depending on hygiene no charging extra for the GFE as I allow kissing, cuddling and oral both ways... Only extra u charge for is the weird stuff lol cum and enjoy me gents
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Posted: 2026-03-09 09:25:16

On 2026-03-09 09:14:51 Sandy said:
No charging extra for CIM, COF and OWO depending on hygiene no charging extra for the GFE as I allow kissing, cuddling and oral both ways... Only extra u charge for is the weird stuff lol cum and enjoy me gents




Seen ur pics they look wow we need to hook up.
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Posted: 2026-03-09 09:37:16

We offer a tedious but energetic 4 hand massage. Extras include fh and oral and a mutual shower session by one of us. Our 4 hand session is a lot of rhythm work as It is so extras has to be paid for
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Posted: 2026-03-09 10:15:06

On 2026-03-09 09:37:16 Harmony Hands said:
We offer a tedious but energetic 4 hand massage. Extras include fh and oral and a mutual shower session by one of us. Our 4 hand session is a lot of rhythm work as It is so extras has to be paid for
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This is justifiable because there two of you offerings a massage and I am assuming a hand relief as a basic ending then the Oral and FH is an additional.

I have packages that separates them the good boy is massage and edging the bad boy is the same as the good boy just everything naughty and nice.

And then obviously something for fetishes fantasies and kinks that's all my additional services which are charged qt a higher rate such as Humiliation, Pegging,BDSM etc...
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Posted: 2026-03-09 11:51:10

This thread is actually a good example of how people misunderstand how the "purple world" really works.

Many guys approach it like they're paying for a fixed product with a standard package. In reality it functions much more like a market of negotiated experiences, and that market is shaped by three main forces: economics, boundaries, and fantasy psychology.

First, there's simple supply and demand.

If a lot of clients request something and fewer providers are willing to offer it, the price goes up. That's basic market behaviour. Greek is a classic example higher physical risk, fewer providers comfortable offering it, so it carries a premium.

But the same logic can apply to anything if the provider decides it does.

Second, there are personal boundaries.

Not every act means the same thing to every provider. Some things they may associate with personal intimacy rather than work, or simply something they don't want to do frequently. Charging extra or setting a high price ... becomes a way of filtering requests.

In that case the price isn't always about the act itself. It's about control over how often they are asked to do it.

Third, and this is the part people often miss, there is the psychology of the fantasy itself.

The whole appeal of the experience is that it feels natural and mutually engaging, even though everyone understands it's still a structured transaction.

The moment every small request becomes a separate charge, the illusion breaks. It stops feeling like a fantasy and starts feeling like a meter running.

That's usually when clients walk away , not because they can't afford it, but because the experience stops feeling organic.

The smartest providers understand this balance very well. They include enough in their standard offering to keep the interaction flowing naturally, and only charge extra for things that genuinely involve more risk, preparation, or effort.

The smartest clients approach it from the other side.

Instead of trying to negotiate every detail or add-on, they simply look for someone whose standard service already aligns with what they enjoy. When that alignment is there, nobody feels pressured and nobody feels like they're being nickel-and-dimed.

That's usually when both sides have the best experience.

At the end of the day this is still a marketplace built around mutual consent, boundaries, and expectations. Some providers structure their menu one way, others another.

If someone's structure doesn't work for you, the best solution usually isn't frustration , it's simply moving on to someone whose approach fits what you're looking for.

That's the real advantage of a market with choice.
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Posted: 2026-03-09 11:51:21

Now this I like.

On 2026-03-09 09:14:51 Sandy said:
No charging extra for CIM, COF and OWO depending on hygiene no charging extra for the GFE as I allow kissing, cuddling and oral both ways... Only extra u charge for is the weird stuff lol cum and enjoy me gents

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