True words FrankT. Wonder waar hoor(sien) jy dit ;-)

I'm sure everyone wanted to know the out come and it was...

"I'm im love with you as a punter and nothing more"

Mmmmmmmmm

@Sadmax, tough luck, but at least you got a honest answer. It is so easy to develop a crush on a WG. For that hour or two, you are the centre of their universe, and it feels great to have that attention. If you are like me and you have this knight in shinning armour complex, you always think you can get them out of this life. And before you know it, you are in love.

I have learned a few hard lessons, but now I just go with the flow and enjoy those precious times.

Sadmax...the short term pain of accepting the truth is much better then a long-term pain of believing an illusion. Not every person or opportunity that knocks on the door of your life should be let in. And no relationship is ever a waste of time, if it didn't bring you what you want, it thaught you what you DON'T want. So sorry it didn't work. But ja, u know where to find her for a good time. Don't hold it against her because she doesn't feel the same. Life goes on, and so should you.

@Sadmax She did the most honorable thing by breaking your heart then and there . It is perfectly easy to fall in love with a WG since there is a lot of intimacy involved even if it is for fleeting moments . A dishonest WG would have tagged you along for a ride . But she did not . Cherish her as a friend .

It was brave of you as a lot of people like you churn in agony waiting that someone will answer your dilemma . Do not fret as I believe that if something is not intended for you then something better awaits you .

There are many wise people on this thread. Really refreshing to read this and not hate speech which some threads bring

Xxxxxx jy sal geluk vind.

youre better off bud.

As jy nie van drank hou nie gaan jy nie geluk vind in n kroeg nie, as jy nie n gelowige mens is nie gaan jy ook.nie jou lewens maat daar vind nie so moennie jou geluk in die bedryf soek nie. Behalwe as jy n ridchard G look is dan het jy my linker hand, xxxxx en ek het so gereelde klient ai maar hy sien nie my handjie raak ha ha enjoy life. Mooi dag hartjies.