Nonvanilla, I appreciate your humour, lol. I know there is lot more to life than that. But it is a fetish, and fetishes have to be catered for... You know, if you are a person that like russians, viennas, carrots etc. you won't give up that diet just because there are other foods on Earth, hahaha!! However, I am enjoying the diversity, and some heavy romance from time to time is vitalising too! What are you up to?

Some dude was going to Singapore - some of the most stunning asian shemales there, and this coming from me that am not into asians... Mr Google will guide you, my friend!

Hey dudes, seen Mimi's new Mariah-Carey-in-the-role-of-catlady pics? Nice! Great bod, Mimi!

Havata, its now a fetish eh? Well, embrace and enjoy it all. You forgot deo canisters from your diet :-p. Aha, romancing explains your short absence. I thought you were locked up in Valentina's basement hehe. I haven't been up to much. I'll update you in a pm as I need your advise yet again. Circumstances changed greatly last week. Sexually, I'm still on a shemale break. I'm going up to Jhb this weekend to meet my friends who will be visiting yet again. I'll be throwing a vanilla and non vanilla/kinky sex party on Saturday. Following the success of the first fetish party, my vanilla friends want me to throw them one too. I must admit I am enjoying preparing, throwing and hosting these parties. Could be my new kink.

omg i just spent the last hour and a half reading this forum i have missed out so much....
you guys are my heros. screw what ppl think we love what we do and t-girls are awesome. i leave for hong kong this weekend to see if the grass is greener on the other side i will keep you guys postered

@nonvanilla: fantastic, to concentrate on your theme parties, I salute! Is it open to mortals like us, if in the neighbourhood? Would love to bring Xtacee or Val or Leila or all three to one of your jols!
And yeah, I wish I was locked up in Val's subterranean raving anal sex refuge, you are giving me ideas, lol!

@ bigballs: thanks dude, I suppose you live in the free world too? And going to Hong-Kong, huh!!?? I don't know if the grass is greener, but the shemales rock, and there are like a million of them there! Please, do keep us posted!!

Havata, this will be a private party unfortunately so I can't invite you if you're in the neighbourhood. I am contemplating making SA my home for a few years and if I decide on it, then I'll be throwing parties. I really enjoyed the party I threw last time and preparing for the next is so much fun already. I'd like to combine my experiences from all the parties I've been to, those I've read about and my and others' fantasies to come up with the ultimate parties. You definitely will be invited for those!
Weren't you already planning on seeking anal sex refuge from her? Hehe.

Bigbalzboy, if you worry so much about what others think, you will miss out on so much. You only live once and you owe it to yourself to live fully to your heart's desires!

Nonvanilla, fair enough. At the moment, however, I am totally disinterested in any chicks, anal or not, I am into the romance thing, hoping to have everything there in one place, with one wonderful woman....I know, sounds soapy and cheesy, but it is the kind of mood I'm in. does not stop me from appreciating beauty and prowess, though, lol! Keep rockin' and thumbs up for the parties comments!

Not interested in anal? *shakes him violently and asks for the old Havata*. I'm teasing. Now you know how I felt when I told you I was in lovey dovey mode a few weeks ago and wasn't interested in anything else. I was there so no, I don't find it soapy and cheesy. Ok, well maybe it is but what a nice feeling it brings.

One more sleep! I can't wait! Sad part is I can't drink. Argh! PM-ing you in a bit.

Lol, gave the wrong message! Totally into anal, but with that same person in question. Yes, brings different pheromones out, I suppose...